I didn't know whether to put this here or in romantic feelings forum.

O.K. A while ago I asked my T to stop doing something that i found sexually arousing. He apologised, said he didn't mean to/know it had that effect. he stopped. Now he is doing something similar to what he was doing before with the same results.
I want to tell him about my erotic feelings but the last pdoc I told this to things spiralled out of control and when i told his secretary I thought he was pleasuring himself(it was quite obvious, but could have been interpreted as something else) in my appts. he increased my meds told me I was delusional and I ran like h*ll. (I was just out of school and did not know who to complain to)

I am really coming to trust the T but 'm still ndecided about how to bring it up. Maybe the famous 20 seconds of courage is what I need.
Just a rant to try and getthings straight in my head.

[wotchermuggle]

Is your T also your Pdoc?

I'd try telling him again and see what his response is before making any big changes.

[scorpiosis37]

What is it that your T is doing? He probably doesn't know that it has that effect on you. If you tell him, he will most likely stop.

T is my T not my pdoc.

[tinyrabbit]

Maybe he doesn't realise he's doing it.

I would definitely speak to him...