[sweepy62]

I'm so worried that my r will be Mas or disappointed at me for stopping in at the ptsd group for a quick minute to tell my group t I would not b attending his group because of added feelings to transference and to say bye to my friends I was suppose to just wait for my h to pick me up and not do that but I was so upset I was impulsive now I wins find out till my next session slept 4th I'm an emotional wreck

[tealBumblebee]

I hope that they will try to understand things from your point of view and how difficult it is for you to be even going through this in the first place. Perhaps they will take this into account and hopefully they will not give you a hard time about it but comfort you and guide you in the best way of dealing with these feelings.

[growlycat]

You have every right to tell your T you think she is wrong.
You could ask her "What is the worst thing that could happen if I saw group T while having these feelings?"

It is unlikely that you would make a pass or grab his butt, seriously wondering what your T is so worried about??? I don't see any risk

[sweepy62]

I was thinking the same thing I have no crossed any boundaries I have been very respectful all my feelings have been kept to myself until I disclosed them I'm not writing love letters omg

[Kacey2]

Sweepy,

I too think your ind t is wrong in this situation. Seriously, I feel as if she is shaming you about your feelings and that is terrible! If I were you I would tell her that she is overreacting. I think you should continue your PTSD group as they are your support. Transference is simply par for the course. Hugs. KC

[sweepy62]

Originally Posted by Kacey2

Sweepy,

I too think your ind t is wrong in this situation. Seriously, I feel as if she is shaming you about your feelings and that is terrible! If I were you I would tell her that she is overreacting. I think you should continue your PTSD group as they are your support. Transference is simply par for the course. Hugs. KC

thank you so much for your support kacey lately i been posting alot because i know i get validated here and even if i am wrong about my feelings you guys tell me and i will accept it as i trust you guys but this here is all new to me and all i did was be honest never crossed any boundaries i was thinking is it because i am bipolar or borderline personality that she took me out of ptsd group along with the transference thing?

[sweepy62]

Should I call t and apologize for being upset

[wotchermuggle]

This is such a weird situation. I don't understand why they are freaking out so much about it. Unless you're like stalking this therapist, this should be workable while you REMAIN in group.

[sweepy62]

No stalking at all my individual t says its interfering in my trauma work I go to group every wed for an hour and a half that is it no flirting just appropriate jokes to lighten up the group I'm told I'm a personable person a STALKER never not even an inappropriate word out of my mouth it's been all in my head until I disclosed it in individual therapy