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Old Aug 26, 2013, 02:42 PM
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Im so ******* sick of people on here and outside of here. Sick of people asking questions why? Sick of T not caring enough and blaming me for this! Not directed toward anyone on here, but why the **** do you care, out of curiosity or out of caring love? I cant tell cause this is a d*** website! So stop asking, leave me alone to wine and cry by myself. This just made my ******* day worse. End Rant.
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Old Aug 26, 2013, 02:46 PM
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sorry you are feeling this way .can i just offer a hug
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Old Aug 26, 2013, 02:54 PM
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Sick Of The Judgement

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Old Aug 26, 2013, 03:38 PM
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ACK! Sounds like you were triggered.

I'd imagine that a lot of times, people ask questions so they can make a judgment about something. I'd also imagine sometimes people ask questions so they can get a better understanding in order to provide feedback. It's not always intended to be malicious or judgmental.

This kind of reaction, though, would have me feeling less interested in engaging.
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Old Aug 26, 2013, 05:40 PM
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I'm sorry that you feel so triggered. I think a lot of times, people don't mean to judge, they are just trying to understand. But i know how that can come off as being either arragont or judgemental. Have you tried journalling?
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Old Aug 26, 2013, 07:41 PM
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I hate being judged. I can only hope I haven't made people feel this way
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Old Aug 26, 2013, 08:39 PM
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Oh sorry you are struggling right now.
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Old Aug 26, 2013, 09:08 PM
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Did something happen? I am sort of confused about this.
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 09:57 AM
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No judgement from ShrinkPatient ever!!!
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Old Aug 27, 2013, 10:58 AM
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Oh my gosh, I don't know what's happened but I'm so sorry you're in this pain right now.
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