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Old Oct 23, 2013, 09:11 PM
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Do you ever find yourself dreaming of your T?

The other night I had a semi-lucid dream about my T. We had just finished a session, and I didn't want our time to be up. I expressed this to her, and she came over and took me in her arms. She stroked the top of my head and kissed my forehead.

In the dream I knew it wasn't real, though I chose to pretend that it was so I could hand onto it a little longer.

I didn't remember as soon as I woke up, but it came back at an odd point of the day. Ever since I remembered, I have found myself trying to go back to that moment where I felt so comforted. It makes me both sad yet happy that at least for that moment, I was able to hold on to the feeling of being cared for.

Anyone else have similar experiences?

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Old Oct 23, 2013, 09:59 PM
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I had a dream that I emailed T telling her I was going to sh and she called to verify that it wouldn't be bad enough for her to need to worry about me/ no sui thoughts. It was kind of weird, felt real but when I woke up I didn't feel any way about it.

In your dream though, it sounds very comforting and I can see why reflecting back to that moment would make you feel that way. Sweet.
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Old Oct 24, 2013, 10:51 AM
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I once dreamt that my T was standing behind and kind of above me, holding onto my upper arms.

I took it to mean that I feel emotionally held and supported. It was a lovely dream!
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Old Oct 24, 2013, 10:59 AM
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Oh yes, I've had dreams like that.
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Old Oct 24, 2013, 12:20 PM
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Yes, more than once. In my dreams T used to turn into a raven and fly off leaving me in a strange forest quite often.

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Old Oct 24, 2013, 12:23 PM
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I had a dream once about me and my t lying in bed together. She was cuddled up to me. Not in a sexual way, almost like a parental way. It was nice and comforting.
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Old Oct 24, 2013, 12:23 PM
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I've had those type of dreams about someone else and I know that feeling of wanting to hold onto that dream. My dream was about hugging my deceased parent. I love those dreams. They feel so real.
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Old Oct 24, 2013, 01:36 PM
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Healing - I've had dreams like that too. They use to really bother me, but as you said, I think they mainly stem from a parental longing.

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Old Oct 24, 2013, 01:56 PM
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I once dreamt that my T was standing behind and kind of above me, holding onto my upper arms.

I took it to mean that I feel emotionally held and supported. It was a lovely dream!
That's what I call the backwards hug. It's described in the big book of evil the Emotionally Absent Mother, that I recommended and then everybody here hated and ended up burying it in their backyard. Sometimes I make t walk me to the door that way - I have my backpack on as a buffer, but it turns into kind of a conga line. 6 years is a long time...
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Yes all the time especially about my first T since I have known her since my mid teens.
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Old Oct 25, 2013, 12:25 AM
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I just had a dream that my t was nose to nose with me suddenly. He asked me what he would have to do to make me hear or see that he would always be there for me and wouldn't be going anywhere. Would he have to raise his voice or be right in my face. Suddenly he rolled his chair up to mine, and I remember his chair going over just the tip of my shoe and actually feeling it and then he was nose to nose with me. He wasn't angry or upset or anything, but calm. He was just trying to be in my face to get his point across I guess, nothing more. Then I woke up. It was weird.
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Old Oct 25, 2013, 09:36 AM
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I had a dream once about me and my t lying in bed together. She was cuddled up to me. Not in a sexual way, almost like a parental way. It was nice and comforting.
I've just woke up today from a dream where my T (but not my real-life T, this was someone i don't know) got into my bed and encouraged me to cuddle into her, like spooning!! it was non-sexual and it was kind of comforting but at the same time weird and i kept jumping out of bed and making excuses to go do other things? I couldn't relax into it.
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Old Oct 25, 2013, 10:52 AM
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That's what I call the backwards hug. It's described in the big book of evil the Emotionally Absent Mother, that I recommended and then everybody here hated and ended up burying it in their backyard. Sometimes I make t walk me to the door that way - I have my backpack on as a buffer, but it turns into kind of a conga line. 6 years is a long time...
I didn't describe that very well. I don't mean he had his arms around me. He was literally gripping my upper arms rather than hugging.
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Old Oct 26, 2013, 08:36 PM
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I had a sex dream about my t just a couple nights ago. Which, since I have a kind of daddy transference for him, was very disturbing!
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