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Old Jan 01, 2014, 05:45 AM
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I am an unhappy, glum and tearful cat. Missing T - three weeks feels forever, there are lots of triggers during the holidays and I'm starting to feel very lost.

I don't even know what I want from this post, just wanted to get it out somewhere
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Old Jan 01, 2014, 05:52 AM
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I know the feeling. I've had to wait three months for another appointment with my mental health nurse specialist. Even now, 15th of January seems so long away. We'll get there though, eventually lol.
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Old Jan 01, 2014, 06:36 AM
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Me too, I haven't seen my T for nearly 5 weeks, it is too long.
Can't wait for next week.
I understand how you are feeling.
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Old Jan 01, 2014, 07:40 AM
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I so get this . are you able to send letters or anything to your T? I hope you are finding things to do to help the time go bye faster. I write in my journal a lot
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Old Jan 01, 2014, 07:50 AM
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Sorry you're struggling!

Three weeks for me as well and the two so far haven't been very good. I'm not even sure what I'm returning to. I was overwhelmingly sad after my last appointment and given the likelihood that I'll be losing both T's that I see, I'm not predicting a great start to my year.
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Old Jan 01, 2014, 08:07 AM
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Holidays suck. And i'm pretty sure time slows down during those weeks... it's definitely a thing.

Try and keep busy and reassure yourself she/he'll be back soon.
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Old Jan 01, 2014, 08:59 AM
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Old Jan 01, 2014, 09:57 PM
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Me too. It will be three weeks by the time I see her again. However, I called and left a message on her work voice mail, which says she will be back in the office tomorrow and she called me back 20 minutes later, but I couldn't talk to her because company had just arrived. Then she called me back again an hour ago, but I couldn't answer the phone because I was busy with my child's stinky diaper. She left a message that she was going to bed. So that might be it until Tuesday. Three weeks is way too long.
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Old Jan 02, 2014, 04:22 PM
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Thanks everyone for hugs and replies

I bought a journal a couple of months ago and really want to write in it. This would be the ideal time to put my thoughts down every time I feel the need to talk to T or be with her. I was put off journaling a couple of years ago when my H found my two journals and read them (he said he was worried about me). I'm finding it hard to get past this and start them up again although I think it would be the best way to get through this break.
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