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Grand Magnate
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This is in continuation to my previous post today about my t leaving in 5 weeks.
I been crying on a off silently all day, my h is so insensitive , I told him after I left therapy how awful I was feeling that my t was leaving, he said " damn this is the second time, what are you doing that they keep leaving you" When I got home I was so upset that I called and left her a message I said " why don't you just go ahead set up a session with the new t already and get it over with" I was impulsive so I'm gonna call tomorrow to apologize. I don't know how to handle this. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk __________________ Bipolar 1 Gad Ptsd BPD ZOLOFT 100 TOPAMAX 400 ABILIFY 10 SYNTHROID 137 |
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My heart is aching for you. To be experiencing this impeding loss over your T and then to have your husband discredit you must be very difficult. Anyone (anyone!) in your situation would feel broken.
I think if your T is any good she will understand. You are not the first client to leave a voicemail they regret, period. It happens. Probably a lot. I don't think you're out of bounds to ask for a '911' visit with her asap. You may not feel it, but you ARE strong enough for this. You have already made it this far. |
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I bet it hurts like heck sweetpea but you will get through this. I know it seems so so overwhelming right now but you will get through it. your T is going to help as much as she can and so will the new T that she picked for you. oh and there is no way you have done anything to cause this at all.
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I guess your H was trying to be funny?
The Ts just find new jobs, there's nothing what-so-ever personal behind their decission. Maybe check that the new T doesn't plan to leave soon too? It's not 100% but at least it's stg... |
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It's so painful
Has t contacted you since you left the voicemail? |
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Grand Magnate
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my h,, is not the most empathic person, thats the first thing I asked my t when I started seeing her, if she had plans to leave, she said no, but would tell me in advance, as she has, but 2 weeks ago I had a gut feeling about something, I asked again are you leaving me, and she said NO, now this news yesterday has made me shut down.
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Tell your h he needs to start going by PC rules - either be supportive or dont say anything, and if you make a joke, say youre making a joke and get ready to get a pie in the face. im so sorry youre going thru this. But at least your t seems genuinely sorry and recognizes how it will affect you.
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she always calls me back when I leave a message, but I was quite sarcastic when I left the message yesterday, I didnt get a call back, but then again, she might have been busy. I am going to call her today and apologize, because thats not me at all.
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