[sweepy62]

As you know from previous post my t is leaving in 5 weeks right in middle of trauma work, same thing happened over a year and a half ago with t1 , except we didn't have this deep connection .

I see my t on wed she wants to process how I feel , tears have been coming from nowhere since I got the news, now I cry about my CSa now I cry about anger I cry about her, she opened up an emotion I had under control.

Anyway I plan just to put these pics on her desk I can't talk, I'm in shutdown mode, I don't even talk to friends. Please tell me what you think.

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[ScrewedUpMe]

I really feel for you and what you are going through. I think this is a great way of expressing yourself if the words won't come. I say go for it. I hope you can get some kind of closure even though it's so painful

[Karrebear]

Do it. Its a great way of expressing yourself.

[shelbykay]

I know you've been doing really good work with your T, and I'm sorry she's leaving. I can only imagine how hard this must be. I agree that you should give T the pictures.

[Petra5ed]

I'm sorry you are going through this, if I was in your shoes I'd feel the same way. There is really nothing else for you too do but to try to accept that this is happening and face the loss, understanding that it is probably permanent but you also never know, you might end up crossing paths with this T again. Losing someone you're close to is one of the most painful experiences for a person, but try to accept that the pain is part of the great cost of love, it is inevitable for all people, it is like an emotional sacrifice because without risking great loss you cannot have great love. Time will completely heal this for you, and you can assist it by trying to do what you're inner voice tells you your therapist would want you to do. When the **** hits the fan the best thing to do is get out and be around people, and if you don't know where to go you can always volunteer your time somewhere.

[growlithing]

Maybe you should show her the pictures instead. Placing them on her desk is a little bit passive aggressive and talking about how you feel will probably be more healing than simply informing her.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I would have a hard time too. I mean hell, when I was facing a two week break from seeing my T constantly but still having contact with her, I was a sobbing mess. I was also facing other stuff too, but I was still very distraught thinking about leaving her for that amount of time. If she were to leave suddenly, I would be completely heart broken.

I don't think crying is something you need to "control" either. If you are more weepy right now, that's okay and that's good.

[granite1]

hugs girl.i think how ever you are able o communicate with her is what you need to do .but sweetpea do try o communicate with her and accept the time you do have.it will hurt so much more if you don't use this time. maybe also give her a note asking her to help you not stay shut down.