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Jan 25, 2014, 06:21 PM
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About six weeks til my t gets home! She is not home permanently but just for a big event going on in her family that she has to be at. I dont care what it is, as long as it gets her on the same part of the planet as me. She is really excited- she hasnt been home in two years. I havent seen her since i went to visit her in october of 2012-- forever ago-- and we are really both looking forward to it
 She will need to spend lots of time with her family of course but i am going to take some days off work so we can spend time together. She said i need to think of some special things we can do together -- she cannot wait to have more of my home made foods but i we are also tossing around ideas like going sky diving, ice skating, etc, besides just the usual lunch/ go for walks So i am looking for ideas--we live in a big city-- what are some ideas for things that we could do together with our t when she gets home... She will be here about a month Btw i also have DID in case you didnt know already, so ideas can be for little kids also/ young alters Thank you 
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Jan 25, 2014, 06:23 PM
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Nice to hear, hope it is enjoyable for both of you
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Jan 25, 2014, 06:31 PM
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What are some things your alters like doing? Do they have any ideas of what might be enjoyable?
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Jan 25, 2014, 06:35 PM
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Yay
 welcome home party, anyone?Bet you can't wait Starry 
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Jan 25, 2014, 06:39 PM
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that's wonderful she is going to be home soon
I'm sure you will all have a lot of fun when she is here, as well as just spend time catching up and getting some inperson therapy and attention for all of you ... are you still dog sitting for her? see if those inside have some ideas of how they want to spend this time since it is such precious time for everyone ... i'm excited for you
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Jan 25, 2014, 06:42 PM
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Lovely to hear- you deserve it M. Hope she can spend tons of time with you
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Jan 25, 2014, 07:21 PM
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Great to hear! I hope you enjoy the time spent with your T.
Suggestions for things to do: - Have a picnic then go to a park to play and/or feed the ducks (Good for younger alters) - Go for a bike ride (If you can) - Cook things together (You and your T) Maybe teach her how to make your home made goodies? - Play catch, hide and seek (Again, good for the younger alters) If I think of more at a later date, I will reply again to the thread. Maybe if you give us a small list of some things that you and your alters like to do, then we can think of more ideas for you
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Jan 25, 2014, 07:33 PM
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Maybe do build-a-bear. You could make her one to take back with her in order for her to think of you and she could do one for you.
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Jan 25, 2014, 09:01 PM
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build-a-bear sounds like a great idea. so glad for you!
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Jan 25, 2014, 11:54 PM
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Thanks for the ideas
All younger alters want to do is sit and read and cuddle with her. They have always been quite satisfied with that they love for her to read books to them as some of them cannot read yet. They love to go for walks. Yes, we still have her dog so we will be taking her for walks too.
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Jan 26, 2014, 09:30 AM
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Really happy for you that you finally get to see T
I'm just really curious...and don't feel you have to answer if you don't want to, but how do you arrange paying T if you spend whole days together and go on outings? How does she charge for that? Hope you both have a lovely time together. |
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Jan 26, 2014, 07:31 PM
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Screwed Up Me, We have something worked out, for her time.
The younger inside kids told me today they want to be sure to make videos of them and t together since they havent done that in a while together and they have a few specific activities in mind now. I just hope we get enough time with her to do everything they want. I know that no matter how much time we get with her it will not feel like enough. |
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Jan 30, 2014, 08:10 PM
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My t is getting her plane ticket this morning, or at least planning to
she is wanting to get here at the beginning of march so we actually have about four weeks to go. Its nice to hear her so excited again. She has been really down in the dumps lately and i love hearing her all happy.
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Jan 30, 2014, 09:08 PM
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She just emailed me that she got her ticket
We have an actual arrival date on the calendar!! I told her i will pick her up at the airport if she needs a ride that way i can see her right away she is going to be here about a month. Praying it will end up being longer
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