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Old Jan 20, 2014, 04:02 AM
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Ok, so the session hasn't happened yet. I'm seeing Mr T tomorrow.

But here's the topic. I've made Madame T my universal scapegoat. Whenever I'm feeling down and don't know why, I start obsessing about her crimes. Before Madame T, my mother filled that role.
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Old Jan 20, 2014, 05:09 AM
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Ok, so the session hasn't happened yet. I'm seeing Mr T tomorrow.

But here's the topic. I've made Madame T my universal scapegoat. Whenever I'm feeling down and don't know why, I start obsessing about her crimes. Before Madame T, my mother filled that role.
I wonder if your x-t knew and felt this long before you did.
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Old Jan 20, 2014, 05:19 AM
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Perhaps it is still your mother, but in the form of Madame T.
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Old Jan 20, 2014, 05:45 AM
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I wonder if your x-t knew and felt this long before you did.
I think she did. But she didn't have any answer to it.
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Old Jan 20, 2014, 05:46 AM
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Perhaps it is still your mother, but in the form of Madame T.
The subconscious thinks they are the same person.
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Old Jan 20, 2014, 09:21 AM
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Do you want to have a scapegoat in your life in this way? It isn't my thing, but you aren't hurting her (unless you're calling her up and telling her these things) and perhaps this scapegoating serves a purpose for you.

If you don't want to engage in this mental process any more, that's a different manner. Like all things, I believe, it can be changed if you want it.
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Old Jan 20, 2014, 10:00 PM
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Saw Mr T today. No new answers, but we are going to try hypnosis next week.
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Old Mar 18, 2014, 01:47 AM
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I wonder if your x-t knew and felt this long before you did.
Don't they always.
And maybe she said so and I didn't listen.
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