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I love my Ts smile. Its big and just melts my heart.
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~ Listen to the rain. Feel the touch of tears that fall, they won't fall forever. All things come, all things go. ~ |
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That she is always willing to compromise with me and be understanding of my flexible boundaries.
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The woman stays back. And she has never touched me.
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. Last edited by stopdog; Mar 23, 2014 at 03:20 PM. |
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Absolutely honest and straight-forward with me.
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#5
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several things... her willingness to give tons of hugs, how we do all this "out of the box" stuff, her huge heart, her openness,& ability to do all day long sessions and that she considers a three hour session "short."
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#6
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I like my new ts honesty
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#7
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I appreciate her consistency and flexibility. She is consistently helpful, welcoming, committed. Not 100% but pretty darn close, like 99%. She also is willing to adapt to my situation, she has experience with many different modalities and will work with me until we find tools and approaches that work. Really excellent. She's also really self-aware, socially conscious, creative, and interesting, so, I enjoy our interactions as much as you can enjoy this type of thing.
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#8
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I love that he is consistently supportive and genuinely understands me.
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#9
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She is so open and honest. She has told me things about her childhood which is beneficial for me. I always felt like a "freak" not with her but in general. Knowing where she comes from and that she does understand coming from a dysfunctional family has really helped me.
She is available when I really need her and we work well together as a team. |
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#10
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That he does not have a stick up his a s s and admits that when his own issues get in the way and he made a mistake.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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His patience and being open about himself.
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Gra Dilseacht Cairdeas Rien ne pèse tant qu'un secret. |
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#12
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That she is very good at her job and knows what she is talking about.
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#13
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How she listens and reaches out to me when I can't find the courage to ask for something or am not able to function well.
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Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end. |
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#14
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My T cares so much and has a really really good memory. I can feel the support with me in hard times.
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she is honest, and direct, no beating around the bush, and challenges me, just the way I like it, and plus she is also an art therapist as well as a clinical psychologist.
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Bipolar 1 Gad Ptsd BPD ZOLOFT 100 TOPAMAX 400 ABILIFY 10 SYNTHROID 137 |
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He's really humble and calm. He's really good at setting personal boundaries because he's the exact same person every week. No drama, no games, nothing in his personal life seems to affect our time together and I love that stability.
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As wolves love lambs so lovers love their loves - Socrates |
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#17
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She always has my best interests at heart, and I know that even when she's pushing me so much that I feel distressed, she only does it because she knows I can handle it even though I don't know I can.
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A lot of things. I think the most important thing is how soulful and warm he is and that he really cares and offers a lot of his caring, time, energy, knowledge, and experience - much more than he has to as a therapist.
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His wisdom..
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#20
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everything but in specific how we get eachother's sarcasm and that she is willing to let me know her problems and willing to have a deep connection with me.
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He is a kind person. He puts up with me. I'm not very good at reaching out and calling him when I am really struggling but he has always encouraged me to call him. He tries to understand me.
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"Having your wounds kissed by someone who doesn't see them as disasters in your soul but cracks to put their love into is the most calming thing in this world."-Emery Allen |
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How she will respond to my emails when I am in a panic and try to squeeze me in to her busy schedule (inbetween my regular appointments) - if she can't, she has offered (or has) called me to chat for 5 minutes to calm me down.
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The unexamined life is not worth living. -Socrates |
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He is calm .
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#24
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physically: her eyes and her smile
I like her ability to make me feel calm and relaxed in the session, and her down- to-Earth quality and acceptance of me no matter what I tell her. |
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Wow. I obviously can't swear on my life that it's never happened before, but this is the first time I have ever seen you refer to your therapist using a pronoun. Startling... almost intimate
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