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Apr 15, 2014, 07:38 AM
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I have been struggling for months after no longer seeing my Ex T she got a job at a new agency and I long to be in a therapeutic relationship with her.I was allowed to email for past few months but when I sent a birthday email to her she contacted my current T and talked to her about it Ex T wrote this many times after I asked if it was ok .The reply from her was "...know that you can email me anytime, I just can't always answer right back but know that I read them and will answer as soon as I can."This is so confusing to not do anything wrong and now be told not health to continue contact. So now it is clear that I know longer supposed to contact her which is very upsetting. I saw her only as a "Friend". I never had someone to really understand me. Yesterday her old supervisor and current T's too. Called me concerned about my emotional state. I tear up so easily over not seeing Ex T. I am so attached in my mind. She requested I come in speak to the Nurse who does the medication encouraged to look up information on Borderline Tendencies. I have never been on medication other then antibiotics. I do not want medication. I am 44 Female. I had been seeing Ex T for almost 3 years. Worked on a lot of childhood/ obtained court records with her help ~ CSA (under age 4 and no memory) and a divorce of near 21 years and other issues. She was a perfect fit for me.
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Apr 15, 2014, 12:46 PM
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I'm so sorry your ex-T cannot work with you anymore and get to your friendly emails as quickly as she has in the past. I hope you can connect with your current T and work at grieving the loss of what you enjoyed so much. People come in and go out of our lives just as we come into and go out of others'. It is always sad, investing ourselves in a relationship and then having it end and having to evaluate and take our investment of ourselves "back" so we can invest it somewhere else. It can feel like we're just one big IRA account and it will take until we actually do retire before we can enjoy all the people we have met/known through the years.
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Apr 22, 2014, 05:23 PM
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I can understand not wanting medication. Nevertheless, it might be worth trying. In times of trouble, I find Prozac a great comfort.
As a diabetic, I have had to accept that I'll be taking pills for the rest of my life. So what's one more?
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