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#1
May 03, 2014, 02:55 PM
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Hi, well, I'm new... I've been lurking and reading for a while.
I often wish I had someone IRL who 'gets it', but attachment/intimacy/abandonment issues are not exactly conducive to having that kind of close relationship. I'm struggling to write this - don't much like drawing attention to myself, so I'll leave it at that...
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#2
May 03, 2014, 09:32 PM
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Welcome, JustShakey! I live in Arizona too.
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#3
May 04, 2014, 12:44 AM
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Welcome JS!!! I'm in CA
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#4
May 04, 2014, 11:39 AM
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Hi JustShakey! Welcome out of lurkdom and into PC....
Hope you find the support you are looking for on PC.. |
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May 04, 2014, 11:42 AM
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Do you go to therapy? Maybe this is something therapy could help you with, if you're unsure. If you are in therapy, maybe you could bring this up to your T? Do you have anyone you can talk to that leaves near to you?
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Depression; Anxiety; PTSD; Eating Disorders; Self Harm Zoloft 50mg In Psychotherapy |
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#6
May 04, 2014, 03:01 PM
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Hi SilentVoices, yes, I'm in therapy, been just over a year now all told (though 6 months of it was couples' therapy). My not having 'people' is probably the main reason I'm there. I get really panicky when people start getting too close. Of course, this doesn't help much with developing a 'relationship' with T. I keep thinking he's just BS-ing me, pandering to pathetic-girl.
I accused previous T of trying to trick me by essentially being nice to me. Previous T dealt with that by turning right nasty on me. I miss her like crazy - go figure. Treatment was time limited and now I'm too scared to call her and ask to go back. Current T works with her and I think he might be pushing me in that direction, but then again, he might be bs-ing me... Lol, I crack myself up;-P
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'... At poor peace I sing To you strangers (though song Is a burning and crested act, The fire of birds in The world's turning wood, For my sawn, splay sounds,) ...' Dylan Thomas, Author's Prologue |
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May 04, 2014, 03:16 PM
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Hi JS! I'm new here too....so glad you decided to post :-)
I'm so sorry that you had that experience with your previous T! That sounds really painful.... |
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#8
May 04, 2014, 03:36 PM
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Hey shakey. I too have lerked for some time and have just created an account today.
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May 04, 2014, 03:37 PM
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Hi clarelisbeth:-)
Painful, yes, 6 months of pure ow, and sometimes I feel like I want to see her again if only so I can pitch a 2 year old temper tantrum and throw all her couch cushions at her head. But it wasn't -bad- IFKWIM. I learned a lot about myself in that time, including the fact that I tend to believe that people who are nice to me are trying to use me somehow.
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