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Old May 27, 2014, 03:33 AM
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Madame T replied - by email.

She's a bit at a loss as to what I want. Which is fair enough as I'm none too clear myself...
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Old May 27, 2014, 03:56 AM
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My reply to her:

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Thanks T!

I'm far from clear in my own mind what I want.

Partly I just want to see you again.
Partly I am curious to see how much is left of our relationship.
Partly I am dissatisfied with the manner of my leaving and want a cleaner, warmer closure.
Partly I want to understand what went wrong.
Partly I want to refight old battles and win.
Partly I want to break out of my cycle of disastrous relationships with strong-willed women. (My current position is that strong women are bad news and are best avoided. Is that really the best I can do?)

Mostly, I promised myself a happy ending and never got one.

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Old May 27, 2014, 05:10 AM
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Glad to hear she replied and hope you hear back again soon to your reply
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Old May 27, 2014, 05:17 AM
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Wow CE! Your reply back to her is great! Hope you hear back soon.
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Old May 27, 2014, 06:08 AM
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What a great list- especially I want to refight old battles and win. I'm printing it out to show new T.
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Old May 27, 2014, 06:30 AM
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Interesting! And well done. I wonder why strong-willed persons are a consideration. To me, there are people i like and people i dont like. If someone is strong-willed, TOO strong-willed, they may fall into the dont like (and therefore avoid) bucket. But if they are in the do like bucket, then you state your preference instead of kow-towing to them, or as we say, folding like a cheap yurt i mean lookit me, i am standing up to my friends of 35 years and nothing bad is happening. Omg i just realized ive known them more than half my life. Now thats depressing.
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Old May 27, 2014, 06:43 AM
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I'm so happy for you that she replied! And it doesn't appear to be any type of rejection so that's great news! Your response back to her is so honest but very thoughtful. I hope she wants those things for you too and that she replies again. You deserve to break the pattern and have a warmer closure. This seems to have weighed on you for quite some time and I would like to see you more at peace with everything.
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Old May 27, 2014, 07:16 AM
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I am happy to hear you got a reply, hopefully it was more than a couple of sentences, Im hoping she will give you some type of closure soon.
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Old May 27, 2014, 05:54 PM
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I am really happy for you that she replied!! How do you feel about it?
I confess i am a bit jealous also, because my ex t never replied, and i wanted her to so badly. She wont though
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I think your follow up reply is excellent.
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Old May 27, 2014, 06:11 PM
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CantExplain....you are really one of the bravest people I "know".
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Old Jun 01, 2014, 04:32 PM
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My reply to her:
I'm curious if Madame T replied to your reply.
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Old Jun 01, 2014, 06:50 PM
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I'm curious if Madame T replied to your reply.
Not yet. Paying customers come first, I expect!
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Old Jun 01, 2014, 11:34 PM
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Not yet. Paying customers come first, I expect!
She may want to mull it all over and decide best how/if to respond. Could she possibly consult with a colleague, too?
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