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Sep 06, 2014 at 02:56 PM
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Sep 06, 2014 at 03:09 PM
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Sorry to hear you're having to put up with that sort of crap from your mother.
Remember you are not to blame for her horrible behaviour. It reflects what goes on inside of her and you don't deserve it. You are not a loser, and I could never believe in fate or karma or I would be looking at my own life wondering where the hell I went wrong. ((Hugs)) |
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Sep 06, 2014 at 03:13 PM
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If karma is real, then it's got terrible aim.
And I think putting a series of question marks after "I love you" is certainly terrible form. But the fact that you understand that, even though your mother never caught on, is at least proof that the species is evolving! I take comfort in that. And hope you will be feeling re-acclimated in a healthy way soon. 
__________________ “We use our minds not to discover facts but to hide them. One of things the screen hides most effectively is the body, our own body, by which I mean, the ins and outs of it, its interiors. Like a veil thrown over the skin to secure its modesty, the screen partially removes from the mind the inner states of the body, those that constitute the flow of life as it wanders in the journey of each day.” — Antonio R. Damasio, “The Feeling of What Happens: Body and Emotion in the Making of Consciousness” (p.28) |
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Sep 06, 2014 at 03:31 PM
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I don't believe in karma, if that makes you feel any better.
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Sep 06, 2014 at 03:39 PM
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Are you ignoring her texts? Maybe "I love you??" means, "Hello?? Are you there??" I dunno, just guessing...
I don't talk to my mom, so... don't have to deal with that. |
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Sep 06, 2014 at 03:40 PM
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Maybe she thinks they're happy faces??
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Sep 06, 2014 at 03:41 PM
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Everyone wants to be happy.
Not everyone knows how. To be happy our thinking and perspective needs to be corrected. The pain and suffering in life tells us that something needs to be corrected. You are not happy because you have not yet learned how to be happy. It is your responsibility to learn. If you blame anything or anyone for your unhappiness except for yourself, you will never be happy. Yes, difficult things we do not wish for happens in our lives. They happen so we can learn how to overcome them. In the process, we become wise, strong and loving. Wise, strong and loving people are happy. 
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Sep 06, 2014 at 03:43 PM
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Does she do this all the time or just in the one text? I would be inclined to go with typo unless it is how she usually writes you.
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Sep 06, 2014 at 03:54 PM
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My mother is a master manipulator. Once she has f***ed with me she laughs right in my face.
I think I have some understanding of your situation. |
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