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Old Sep 28, 2014, 01:37 PM
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I love the fact that even when I have acted like a brat, pushed the boundaries, called her horrible names, refused to talk to her..she has NEVER made me feel bad, gotten angry at me or raised her voice.
She has always remained calm and full of love and compassion for me.

The most important thing is that she treats me with respect, when I am not even sure I deserve it.
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Old Sep 28, 2014, 01:41 PM
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She endures my teasing and doesn't kvetch about being the victim. It's all I ever wanted
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Old Sep 28, 2014, 05:08 PM
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He is willing to show vulnerability with me-it has been theraputic.
He will admit when he does not know something and ask me for info-It makes me feel important.
He believes in me when I can not believe in myself
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors.
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Old Sep 28, 2014, 06:28 PM
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Her big heart and her willingness to be so out of the box and do whatever works.
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