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Old Oct 22, 2014, 01:18 PM
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First T session in >30 years tomorrow, nervous, really, really don't like talking about myself. Advice?
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Old Oct 22, 2014, 01:28 PM
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Maybe make a little mental list of topics you can discuss, nothing too heavy or upsetting, and start with that.
Good luck, hope you like your t and it goes well xx
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Old Oct 22, 2014, 01:50 PM
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Try to prepare yourself. Can make a mental list as Red suggested, or even a written list. List questions that you have for T, things you want to work on, generalized list of your past, etc. Do some deep breathing.
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Old Oct 22, 2014, 03:52 PM
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Good luck hope it goes well.
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Old Oct 23, 2014, 04:21 AM
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Another option is NOT to prepare. Just go in with an open mind and see what happens.
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Old Oct 23, 2014, 04:26 AM
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You'll probably give a bit of history about yourself and what has lead you to this point. That usually takes up at least the first visit. Don't stress to too much. A good therapist will do most of the thinking for you First T session tomorrow, nervous
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Old Oct 23, 2014, 03:28 PM
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All good, very good even, thanks for your kind words.
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