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So with all the talk of termination on the boards I've been thinking a lot about x-Pdoc. Even more so than usual. With hindsight being 20/20 I want to rant and rave about how differently he could and still achieved my getting well only with him still as my Pdoc. The more I talk about the way things happened I feel like I was set up to fail. It angers and I have/am having a hard time letting go. I want to write a raging email to him. I just might.
Thanks all for being so wonderful. ~~delusionsdaily~~ My med regime: AM: 300mg Seroquel 150mg Wellbutrin PM: 1,000mg Depakote ER 150mg Seroquel |
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I am sorry you had a difficult separation with your pdoc, but blaming them for your anger is misplaced.
Hate mail is the last thing a pdoc needs. They are trying to help people. And maybe it is time to move on to a new pdoc?
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I would not worry about a psychiatrist being bothered by an ex client being angry at them and I certainly don't think they want to do good or help people.
I also doubt hate mail bothers them much. But it might not be something that is good for one's own self to send. Such missives, particularly after the situation has ended, rarely work to cause the other to reflect upon their wrongful actions, probably won't get you a response, and won't change the mind of the person who quit you. In my experience of dealing with those guys as an attorney representing clients against them - they may place such letters/emails in the chart, consider them evidence of what ever they had diagnosed the client with, and go on with their lives.
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It is not always the case that anger is misplaced. Sometimes it is placed very appropriately. Not for me to decide.
One way or another, I hope you release your anger in ways that help you. But know that email, or expecting a response, is not the only way to move forward. |
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