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Apr 15, 2007 at 12:51 PM
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I had a session the other day and I was surprised what my T had said. I was talking about a situation with my boyfriend and she responded with "That's f***** up." I was surprised. I've had a few more interesteding topics too.
I bet many other people are sometimes surprised with their T's responses or topics they bring up. Anyone else have odd/awkward/surprising experiences? __________________ "I tried to be perfect, but nothing was worth it. I don't believe it makes me real." |
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Apr 15, 2007 at 01:06 PM
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i had a session where my t just asked me.. Do you ever get angry.. i mean. do you ever say. F__ U!!!
I was like uhhhhhhhhhh (mouth wide open) no.. not really. |
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Apr 15, 2007 at 01:09 PM
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I was describing to my T how I had stayed with a guy for 3 months just because he was good looking and I was very attracted to him-- otherwise, I really couldn't stand him.
Then I started to try and make myself sound like I felt guity, only so T wouldn't think I was a cold person. I said something to the effect of I was 'horrible' for being with someone for that reason. And T goes, "You think you're horrible just because you wanted to f*** some guy who was good looking?" I breathed a sigh of relief. Once again, he had normalized my feelings. |
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Apr 15, 2007 at 01:11 PM
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I almost fell out of my chair when my T said after a long discussion, "Ah, you're stubborn." I was thinking, "she can't call me that!!!" quickly followed by the realization that she had :-) that I was and that it was delightful, like the little girl who pointed out the emperor had no clothes.
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Apr 15, 2007 at 01:16 PM
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I know, I was so shocked hearing my T curse, not at me but speaking to me with curse words. I was thinking "my mother doesn't even let me say that word!" But then again, I hear it enough at school.
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Apr 15, 2007 at 01:23 PM
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last session my T really shocked me. she told me that she was "really f**kin pissed at me" for doing something that was kinda harmful and not telling her about it. she followed that up by saying "you could be f**ked if you keep doing this, before you know it, you could be completely f**ked"
yeah, i was just a little bit taken back lol.... |
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Apr 15, 2007 at 01:31 PM
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Just last week my doc asked me about my recent fantasies of getting laid.... though he did say it was his word.
It was just fine with me. I welcome it... lol.... |
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Apr 15, 2007 at 02:52 PM
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Ha. Wow. I've never talked about sex with my T before... or has it ever been mentioned.
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Apr 15, 2007 at 05:34 PM
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When T started talking about intimacy and had questions for me about fantasies and sexuality I was like YES!!! Let's talk about this. This is another one of my problem areas and he is pretty open.
But now with my attachment to him, we don't go there as much. I still need to though because I have some things to work out... He has cursed too but then again so do I once in a great while when I'm mad about something. I don't do it often but I like that he can once in awhile too. __________________ My new blog http://www.thetherapybuzz.com "I am not obsessing, I am growing and healing can't you tell?" |
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Apr 16, 2007 at 04:01 PM
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I've been with my T over a year now. I can talk to him about anything. I talk to him about sex. He has asked me before how it felt. I am so comfortable with him.
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Apr 16, 2007 at 05:47 PM
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Haha. I wish I could talk to my T about that. I'm a girl though, and do many people talk about sex?
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Apr 16, 2007 at 08:46 PM
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I've only talked about sex in a nebulous sort of way w/my pdoc & t--cuz my husband & I aren't having any!--Suzy
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Apr 16, 2007 at 08:49 PM
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Sorry to hear that Suzy. But I guess that's a good reason to talk about it!
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Apr 17, 2007 at 03:53 PM
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I'm a girl also. Before he can help me, I have to tell him everything about me. It's been a slow process. I didn't go in there at the beginning and start talking about it. Sometimes he goes deeper than I was planning and I don't know the answer but I give him one and then realize after the session it was not true. I then go in there at my next session and straighten it out.
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