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Old Mar 12, 2015, 10:50 AM
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I'm always worried i'll trip up when walking in, or my stomach will growl really loudly, or a tampon will fall out of my bag, or i'll burp or something :') i think it might just be me being anxious and shy, but i alway feel like i must hold everything tightly together, if that makes sense.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 11:03 AM
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Haha. I sometimes worry I'll pass gas. But then I think he'd probably just laugh because I know I'd crack a joke about it ^^

But still all things considered, I'd rather not :-P
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 11:06 AM
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No, I think once you have given birth to three children in front of rooms full of medical personnel, you lose all concern about modesty and the ability to be embarrassed. (Sorry, just the first random response that went through my head.)
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 11:14 AM
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^^^^^^ LOL!
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 11:18 AM
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Aww... I've been there, and it's hard! I don't worry *too* much (unless I'm feeling sick and think I might need to run out to the bathroom). Things like feminine products in my purse, I don't really worry about at all - my T has been practicing for 30 years, is on his second wife, and has 3 daughters, 2 of whom are adult-aged. I'd be shocked if a stray tampon in any way upset him or threw him off (though I guess if it happened, I might be a little embarrassed and tongue-tied).
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 11:42 AM
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I used to worry that I'd throw up or faint when discussing trauma, but I don't anymore.

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Old Mar 12, 2015, 11:59 AM
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Given birth twice in front of lots of medical people.

Still don't want to pass gas in front of my T LOLOLOLOL
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 12:47 PM
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hmmm not really....ive barfed in front of my T but he was nice about it... lol
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 12:53 PM
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No. I am concerned about the woman humiliating me.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 12:57 PM
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Lately I've been worrying about farting in session. I think it's because I'm feeling so focused on. It's what I want but disconcerting. You know what would make me feel more comfortable? If he farted first.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 01:06 PM
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Sometimes one of our chairs will make a noise, and i will assume that one of us farted and kiddingly make inappropriate remarks
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 01:12 PM
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^ haha i wish i had the confidence to do that.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 04:35 PM
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I'm always worried i'll trip up when walking in, or my stomach will growl really loudly, or a tampon will fall out of my bag, or i'll burp or something :') i think it might just be me being anxious and shy, but i alway feel like i must hold everything tightly together, if that makes sense.
hehe, I've had a couple of those things happen to me at work or in real life and I wanted to melt or just run away to Mars and stay there forever.

It's sort of like that with new therapists but usually after a few months I don't worry about those things. Oddly enough when I do worry about them that's when they're more likely to happen.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 06:13 PM
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I don't really worry about those things. I think it would be extremely likely that any of them would happen to me in session. As for feeling embarrassed about what I disclose to her-- we're way past that point. I feel so comfortable around her that I don't worry about becoming embarrassed.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 06:23 PM
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In my last session my stomach growled so loudly that I tried to squirm to stop it, it didn't work, I tried to make it look like I was going for a drink of water and drank too fast and it splashed in my face and it was totally obvious what I was doing...aargh! I don't get how I can tell this guy dark secrets about me but can't admit my stomach growls
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 06:26 PM
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The woman sometimes has sounds coming from her. I don't find it of concern.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 07:34 PM
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I do worry about flatulating.

A few weeks ago, the toilet there didn't flush. I thought my T was going to have to plunge my pee. Talk about embarrassing.

A long time ago, I went to church on a regular basis. I eventually stopped b/c my stomach invariably started growling. I have IBS and it was bad back then, so I didn't eat before going to church. I actually ended up having anxiety attacks there.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 07:51 PM
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No. I am concerned about the woman humiliating me.

Wow, really? I think that's one of the few times I've read about you being less than a fortress stopdog.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 07:56 PM
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My t flosses her teeth in session, her stomach roars and she blows her nose like an elephants trunk and she has the cheek to judge me for being gay.... grr I can feel my anger rising mow. I don't worry about doing something silly cos t always beats me to it

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Old Mar 12, 2015, 09:04 PM
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My t flosses her teeth in session, her stomach roars and she blows her nose like an elephants trunk and she has the cheek to judge me for being gay.... grr I can feel my anger rising mow. I don't worry about doing something silly cos t always beats me to it
No shyt? She flosses her teeth in session?!? Does she clip her toenails too?
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 09:14 PM
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Lately I've been worrying about farting in session. I think it's because I'm feeling so focused on. It's what I want but disconcerting. You know what would make me feel more comfortable? If he farted first.
I wanted to thank you for this because I've been having a rough week. And reading this made me imagine a chain of farts--like the T farts, so you feel it's OK to fart, then he's like, "Oh, OK, I can fart again," so it's like the wave but with farts. And it made me smile.

Plus a way I was trying to reduce my attraction to T was to think that he probably had to hold in all his farts all day with clients, so then once he got home to his wife and kids, he was a farting machine.
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 09:16 PM
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I'll totally belch in front of people - just let it loose, but passing gas...

That only happens at home around my H LOLOLOL
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 09:29 PM
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Thanks for the laughs!
I'm always worried about accidentally farting if I sneeze or cough or something. In a closed office with no decent ventilation... No no no
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 10:37 PM
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Still don't want to pass gas in front of my T LOLOLOLOL
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but passing gas...

That only happens at home around my H LOLOLOL
I literally LOLed at both these responses, I think it was the abundance of extra "OL"s
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Old Mar 12, 2015, 11:13 PM
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The woman sometimes has sounds coming from her. I don't find it of concern.

Oh dear. This made me laugh. I woke baby. lol
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