[stopchewinggum]

Ugh. So apparently I have "normal people" problems, now? And that's supposed to be a good thing? I know that's what T wanted to happen; because, apparently going for days with no more stimulation than light bulb and enjoying it is "not normal." I liked not having "normal people" problems. Don't get me wrong I'd prefer to have no problems, but I think I'd rather have other problems or no problems. Life was so much simpler.

I went to therapy to pretend to be normal. Well, actually no I didn't. I went there for other reasons, and this is what it turned into. Now, all of a sudden someone wants to marry me, and I'm having to make a bunch of other complicated decisions that involve other people. T doesn't want to spend time on this stuff; because it's "normal." This therapy thing was a mistake.

[vvector0000]

I haven't learned anything from therapists.

I'm sorry your T seems to think that current issues aren't worthy of talking about. That's a bit incomprehensible to me. My Ts have been happy to talk with me about any topic I bring up, including books I've read.

[ruh roh]

It sounds more like this particular therapist might be the mistake, not therapy itself. Are you up for trying another, or taking a break to reassess this one?

[Love Your Suit]

Originally Posted by vvector0000

I haven't learned anything from therapists.

Are you going to a therapist or a Psychologist?

[AncientMelody]

Good luck..I guess I don't really understand what you mean exactly, but I hope you can sort through your problems normal or otherwise.