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#282
This guy is so full of himself. What misplaced snobbery:
"They [clients] leave therapy just like they’d leave a supermarket or a hairdresser...." https://www.pesi.com/blog/details/14...IyMzE4MjgzNQS2 Oh No - Not like A hairdresser - the horror. Oh those poor misguided clients who don't want to pay a therapist to say they are going to stop therapy or who mistakenly believe they are fine leaving without boosting the therapist's ego and bottom line one last time. And for the record - hair dressers also consider themselves professionals and my mother's came to her funeral. __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. Last edited by stopdog; May 06, 2018 at 05:04 PM.. |
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I've really been struggling with validating fragments that have come to me of abuse.
I've been trying to understand memory and making sense of it all. This found me today and I wanted to share it. It really helped me sort some things out. Memories of childhood sexual assault - why are they different? how can we trust them? - May We Dance on Their Graves __________________ "What is denied, cannot be healed." - Brennan Manning "Hope knows that if great trials are avoided, great deeds remain undone and the possibility of growth into greatness of soul is aborted." - Brennan Manning |
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#286
Thoughts about psychotherapy:
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...y-take-so-long Quote:
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...d-relationship
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#289
very interesting article: a feminist perspective on the limits of therapy and how therapy pathologizes very normal behaviours considering the patriarchal society we live in. https://www.feministcurrent.com/2017...nist-activism/
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Thanks Myrto,
I really enjoyed this article! Especially this paragraph makes so much sense. Despite knowing this, psychology does not exist or function to address these issues and the systemic reasons behind them — the oppression of the poor, racialized, and female, for example. Rather, therapy aims only to address each individual’s emotional reaction to their circumstances. It can make you wonder what good psychology actually does for society at large, and for women, in particular. |
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#291
Diana Fosha on "trauma is a patient left alone with overwhelming affect" .
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Interviews with 100 CBT therapists show that 43% of clients experience unwanted side effects from therapy: Interviews with 100 CBT-therapists reveal 43 per cent of clients experience unwanted side-effects from therapy – Research Digest
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#293
When therapists do harm:
When Therapists Do Harm | The Ferentz Institute __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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This guy is a complete asshole very caught up in his "authority"
https://www.whywesuffer.com/how-to-r...psychotherapy/ __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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An unexpected possible positive consequence from (moderate) trauma on cognitive processing: For some, experiencing trauma may act as a form of cognitive training that increases their mental control – Research Digest
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Negative effects of therapy
http://coping.us/images/Barlow_2010_...cts_of_EBP.pdf 10 ways therapists make clients worse 10 Ways Mental Health Professionals Increase Misery in Suffering People - Mad In America __________________ Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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A clinical psychology professor's take on harmful and iatrogenic effects of therapy:
Potentially Harmful Treatments - Oxford Research Encyclopedia of Psychology I was especially interested in the next to last paragraph and his suggestion that: Quote:
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