[InRealLife45]

I sent this to her:

Dear Ex-T,

It was unspeakably cruel of you to sit in front of me and use the last moments of our last session together ​and lie to me, strip away from me the entire reason I have stuck with you for three years.


You DID tell me you loved me, in numerous ways, on numerous occasions over the years. And I loved you back. Foolishly. Fiercely. So much. But when I look in your eyes now I see none of that love. When you hug me now I feel none of that love. So I know its gone, so I know it was never real, so I know there is no reason to stay.

I believe you lied about loving me. I believe that you never loved me, I believe that it is something you never felt for me, I believe it is a sentiment you don't have/are not capable of feeling.

But you did say the words to me. You did force an attachment, you did make me love you.


AND YOU HURT ME. But never so much as you did when you scoffed and said, "I don't love client's, I know you thought you heard me say that, but I never said that to you. So no, I never loved you, it's not a sentiment I have."


I could have accepted "I don't love you anymore." I've already accepted that you don't love me anymore. Because I know you don't, I feel you don't.

But, "I never loved you?"

That means you lied to me. Right from the very beginning, you lied to me. That means you used me. That means you played with my heart, and my head and my emotions. You did grievous harm. INTENTIONALLY. And that is unforgivable.


Listen.

(And I attached two clips of recordings where she said she loved me/had love for me).

[musinglizzy]

Originally Posted by InRealLife45

I sent this to her:

Dear Ex-T,

It was unspeakably cruel of you to sit in front of me and use the last moments of our last session together ​and lie to me, strip away from me the entire reason I have stuck with you for three years.


You DID tell me you loved me, in numerous ways, on numerous occasions over the years. And I loved you back. Foolishly. Fiercely. So much. But when I look in your eyes now I see none of that love. When you hug me now I feel none of that love. So I know its gone, so I know it was never real, so I know there is no reason to stay.

I believe you lied about loving me. I believe that you never loved me, I believe that it is something you never felt for me, I believe it is a sentiment you don't have/are not capable of feeling.

But you did say the words to me. You did force an attachment, you did make me love you.


AND YOU HURT ME. But never so much as you did when you scoffed and said, "I don't love client's, I know you thought you heard me say that, but I never said that to you. So no, I never loved you, it's not a sentiment I have."


I could have accepted "I don't love you anymore." I've already accepted that you don't love me anymore. Because I know you don't, I feel you don't.

But, "I never loved you?"

That means you lied to me. Right from the very beginning, you lied to me. That means you used me. That means you played with my heart, and my head and my emotions. You did grievous harm. INTENTIONALLY. And that is unforgivable.


Listen.

(And I attached two clips of recordings where she said she loved me/had love for me).

Good for you!! And good for you to include the PROOF!!

[divine1966]

I hope you keep the recordings. She is either or a liar or is very unwell mentally not even knowing what she is doing

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[Cinnamon_Stick]

I am glad you wrote her that email and let her know exactly how you feel. I can't believe anyone could do that let alone a therapist.

Good for you!
Honestly, i hope it makes her feel terrible.

[InRealLife45]

Originally Posted by Starry_Night

Good for you!
Honestly, i hope it makes her feel terrible.

She has no feelings for me but contempt. I doubt she even bothered to read the email. I bet she deleted it without opening it.

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[PinkFlamingo99]

She sounds SO MUCH like my ex-T. I'm so glad you're standing up to her. Please let us know how she responds.

[growlycat]

She is not worth a minute more of your time.

[Bipolar Warrior]

I bet it feels good just to have written it, even if she doesn't read it. And if she doesn't read it, she is nothing but a coward, which is pitiful. I'm so glad you have evidence to back it up as well.

I hope she reads it and listens to the recordings, and I hope she feels guilty, but even if she doesn't you're still brave and strong for having sent the email and for finally walking away from that toxic presence of hers. You should feel proud for standing up for yourself.

[PinkFlamingo99]

I think she needs help.

Mine denied saying things she clearly said too and I almost started wondering if it was some kind of neuro thing. Is she older?

[InRealLife45]

Originally Posted by PinkFlamingo99

I think she needs help.

Mine denied saying things she clearly said too and I almost started wondering if it was some kind of neuro thing. Is she older?

No she is not. She's 46.

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