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Feb 26, 2016, 10:54 PM
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So far, no one feels comfortable enough about attachment issues/theory to PM me so that I can clarify a few questions, or everyone thought I might be a weird psycho. It was a bit of an odd request. At any rate, as I was journaling about my last appt. tonight, I stumbled onto the answer to my own questions. Without an explanation, which is cumbersome, let me just say that if I would get out of my own way, therapy might not be such a painful struggle.
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Feb 26, 2016, 11:02 PM
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Not a weird request. Just different time zones. I pm'd you but I only know my own experience as I would not claim to be an expert
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Feb 26, 2016, 11:42 PM
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I don't know anything other than what I have read. Wallin's book Attachment and Psychotherapy and
Trauma and the Avoidant Client by Muller here is a part: https://www.psychologytoday.com/file...uller-2009.pdf
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Feb 27, 2016, 04:50 AM
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Ducky, I missed your thread, sorry! Where is it? What is the attachment question? Agree with Stopdog that Wallin is useful. Pm me if I can help (probably not) or you'd like a hug
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Feb 28, 2016, 12:02 PM
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You can PM me too. I'm reading Wallin's book right now. You said your questions got answered? Can you share what you figured out about transference, attachment styles, etc? I don't think it's so clear-cut. You can have the dismissive style but still want to attach to your T.
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Feb 28, 2016, 04:33 PM
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Also, although I did read both books - I found both authors to be obnoxious people that I would never want to engage with on any level.
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