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#1
Jun 25, 2007, 09:51 AM
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I just done something I never do, and now realised why I never do LOL! As I was about to open the door to leave T just now, T works from home and has been having major building works done since just before xmas, I said, "I've just had a thought after having all this work done, your going to move?" T replied "no, but we;ll talk about that"
As soon as I got the to the street side of her front door, I knew this was gonna hit me. What did she mean by "we'll talk about that?" I mean she said no she isn't moving, so what else is there to talk about? or did she just mean a general "we'll talk about that" like anything that is brought up in therapy when there isn't time to explore??? The thing is this is gonna go round and round and round in my head until next session on friday. I'm not sure if I should email her asking her to clarify it was just a general broad statement of "we'll talk about that" or whether it was a "No but I do have something I need to talk about though" :-( WOuld any of you email for clarifycation or just sit on it? I am not keen on emailing T unless I'm really in the %#@&#!, but I guess I could end up really in the %#@&#! by friday if I dont clear this up LOL! HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP LOL |
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Jun 25, 2007, 09:56 AM
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we'll talk about why that is important to you is my guess
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#3
Jun 25, 2007, 10:01 AM
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I hate it when that kind of schtuff comes up at the end of the session. Then you are left hanging.
P.S. How is that pimple on your left tit doing? lol |
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#4
Jun 25, 2007, 10:05 AM
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I agree with Alex. I think she was letting you know that:
1. she is NOT moving (yippee) and 2. you two can talk about why you thought of that. (whew) Have a great day. I am off to T myself. 
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#5
Jun 25, 2007, 10:39 AM
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Leave it up to us...(I would too) make it more than it might be. Yes..she is not going anywhere.
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#6
Jun 25, 2007, 10:50 AM
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Thank you guys! I agree with Alex too! :-) and decided what ever it is if its anything, I can't do much about it anyways...and shall use this as a practise in just letting it go! and trusting in myself...
SG. Me pimple is getting bigger than me tit LOL |
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#7
Jun 25, 2007, 11:02 AM
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Oh.... I am working on that letting go thing.... a good thing...
well.... unless yer %#@&#! are small... you might wish to give that pimple attention or a look see by a doc. Good luck with letting that go too.... |
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#8
Jun 25, 2007, 01:13 PM
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I don't know; I think you all are going to talk about your thought processes
 How do you get from putting money into the house, customizing it to make it more comfortable for herself and family to moving (especially in "this" real estate market)? Don't you think you're getting kind of desperate/grasping at straws to give her reasons/ways to leave you? LOL :-)
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#9
Jun 25, 2007, 08:45 PM
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(((( mouse ))))
That comment would be driving me batty! Hang in there! You won't know until you know, so try not to let your imagination lead you to agony. 
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#10
Jun 25, 2007, 11:45 PM
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Hey Mouse
I so feel your pain right now. I know that my T is moving one day. He also recently fixed up his office. He says it isn't until like 2010 but I don't know... I was thinking about it the other day and got kind of emotional. I was hoping when the therapy is all over that we could stay in touch somehow. I want to be there for him as any friend would. He is a great person and we get along well. He has put up with me and my drama for quite awhile Anyway, I think your T probably means that she may move and will talk about that with you when the time comes. That is probably the way to say it. It is so hard when sessions end and don't end nice and tidy for the next one.  One one hand she said no about moving and then she left it open. Like I said, I totally understand how you feel. I'd bring that up next session with her.
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#11
Jun 26, 2007, 07:10 AM
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You know I feel pretty ok about this now...first time I haven't let some fester and grow!...plus when I walked into our room yesterday, I was met by T's new "CHAIR! LOL Secret Garden, you sprang to mind when I saw it LOL, but its no leather LOL..
I did put my hand up and go Whhoool hold them horses LOL...then said, don't I get something new? LOL! T asked what did I want? LOL |
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#12
Jun 26, 2007, 07:23 AM
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Well that is another sign she is staying where she is.... So... tell her about the chair of your desires and go from there. LOL. Good luck.
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#13
Jun 26, 2007, 02:23 PM
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Oh, I would lose it.
"We'll talk about that." I am thinking she meant that you guys will address the issue next session.You know, she could probably related the comment with the fear abandonment. In the broad sense. What a difficult note to end the session on. |
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