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Old Jan 28, 2016, 01:17 AM
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My T emailed me his article, knowing my past (toxic) relationships with my professors, one of whom i dated. do you think he is trying to recreate a relationship like that with me so that I can talk about it? why does he continually ask if i've read it? is this a way of encouraging transference?

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Old Jan 28, 2016, 10:45 AM
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Maybe he just finds the article helpful for you?
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Old Jan 28, 2016, 11:10 AM
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What is the article about? Could it apply to you? Have you expressed any interest in the subject? Did your professors give you their articles to read? Etc.

Without more context, it's kind of hard to say.
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Old Jan 28, 2016, 11:58 AM
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as above, hard to tell.
Have you asked him?
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Old Jan 28, 2016, 01:08 PM
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My T gave me an article once because it was on the topic of something we were discussing in therapy. It was meant to create discussion around the topic. Perhaps this is what your T is doing? Can you ask him?
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Old Jan 28, 2016, 01:16 PM
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Have you read it? Was it helpful?
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Old Jan 28, 2016, 06:06 PM
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Since we cant read his mind, how about just asking him why?
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Old Jan 28, 2016, 07:22 PM
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My T emailed me his article, knowing my past (toxic) relationships with my professors, one of whom i dated. do you think he is trying to recreate a relationship like that with me so that I can talk about it? why does he continually ask if i've read it? is this a way of encouraging transference?
Hard to even take a guess without knowing the topic of the research paper. Does the subject apply to something you are dealing with in real life?
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Old Jan 28, 2016, 07:46 PM
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Yeah, my professors used to give me their articles, but i would ask for them. With T i didn't ask, he just asked one day for my email. it is about latinos and bilingual therapy. I'm not latino but it did help to know that he was into social justice. The prof. i dated was into social justice. I wonder if he's trying to make this connection
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