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You had a terrible experience with an unethical therapist, and I am truly sorry about that. The fact that this sort of thing happens really pains me. But I don't see how this experience makes you some sort of authority when it comes to the profession as a whole. You're angry, and I get it; you have every right to be! But attacking therapists in general? Not fair. Not okay. I'm sorry, but it really isn't. In fact, the definition of discrimination is: "the act, practice, or an instance of discriminating categorically rather than individually; prejudiced or prejudicial outlook, action, or treatment". I find discrimination of any kind to be unacceptable. I don't see how you are being reasonable in any way with your responses. You twist my words and call me aggressive because I disagree with you. I have never seen you provide us with any credible sources to back up your statement that therapy is mostly harmful, and yet you mock me for not being able to prove that therapy is mostly helpful. That's pretty laughable, actually. I happen to have two really good therapists. You had a really terrible one. Unfortunately, that's just how life goes sometimes. It's not fair. It's not right. It just is.
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I'm not out to attack her or any particular T. I am interested in the system and in particular how it treats its casualties. The article/study linked by the OP showed me little or nothing of value as one who has been thru harmful therapy. However, i think the study has yet to be completed and so that's partly why there is no real data available. Did anyone else conclude that? |
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I do think the system of therapy/psychotherapy/counseling is very flawed. Maybe the people who believe they benefit from it would have naturally gotten better anyway? If people who got worse might have gotten worse anyway then it could go the other way I guess. I used to be a big therapy supporter. I don't necessarily believe therapists are evil. I think many might mean well, but so many people report being harmed that I think those people need to be validated and not belittled and put down. |
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I think the biz is much too powerful and avoids scrutiny of its methods and outcomes, and I just don't accept any assumptions about it anymore, having been harmed by it. Burden of proof is on the biz and those who advocate for it. BTW I didnt just have one terrible T. I've worked with a handful of others for at least a couple months, and consulted with or tried many more. In all 20+. Most were in the gray area of benign/inconsequential. None were helpful in any meaningful way, though most were nice enough people who wanted to help. I don't relish saying that. It just is. |
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I was glad to see that the study mentioned in the OP was at least starting to look at the question of adverse effects and safety in therapy. Again, to me, the question is not just whether I was doing more poorly after therapy than before. I think there needs to be a large survey of people who have been in therapy which asks the specific question: "Do you feel you have been harmed by the therapy? If so, please tell us, from your perspective, what happened and how it hurt you?" Most clients may very well say no, they were not harmed. But for those of us who have been -- seems to me that we are a potential gold mine of good information, if anybody was interested. This is, to me, just so obvious I can't believe that the profession remains so blind. Maybe, of course, here in the U.S. there is just no person or institution whose "job" it is to do it. Eventually, though . . . it is just too obvious, somebody will wake up or get the energy or something. . . I hope. |
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The reason, I believe, that the industry is not doing much if anything about it is that they have set it up to blame the client no matter what save for sexual exploitation. And even there they blame the client some in a lot of the literature.
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Yes, maybe. But did they deliberately set out to set it up that way or was it just the unexamined self-protective, authoritarian way it developed in the absence of planning and openness to feedback?
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"The second aspect of the work package is looking at psychotherapy service users' self-reported experiences of the adverse effects of psychotherapy, outside of qualitative research studies. Here we are looking at discussion boards, blogs, articles, reports, and book chapters for the data. As for the first part of the work package the data is being synthesised and a model developed using Task Analysis." I do believe we are being heard those that have been affected by less than adequate therapy/therapist, maybe even us as we use these different forums: "Once the work package is complete we will have a better understanding of the therapy events that lead up to adverse effects, the types of adverse effects that occur and how they are experienced and expressed by psychotherapy service users." If you would like more information about the study or to discuss anything further, please contact The Research Team in the first instance: adept@sheffield.ac.uk Maybe they would be interested in hearing from us. |
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The fact is that people in weakened psychological condition going into therapy simply do not have the perception and decision making abilities that are expected of normal citizens. That's why some of us are there. And I, for one, put myself in a position to be shamed and blamed in therapy that I NEVER did in real life. The study defines harm as "Therapy is the main cause of significant personal distress, suffering, or injury; where a significant deterioration in someone’s psychological condition is directly caused by the therapy." The complete study linked in the OP says: “Harm from psychological therapies is fortunately rare compared with the benefit, but we need to reduce the risk of harm. It is important to remember that just because someone has become worse over the course of the treatment it does not mean that the treatment harmed them.” Looks like stopdog is correct, they are continuing, even after going through the motions of doing a study, to . . . I just don't really know how to describe it. |
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Here is something:
William Doherty: How Therapy Can be Hazardous to Your Marital Health http://www.apa.org/monitor/2013/02/therapist.aspx https://feelinggood.com/2013/10/03/t...re-to-measure/ http://www.amazon.com/What-Therapist...sts+talk+about http://www.amazon.com/Bad-Therapy-Ma...apists+failure (I have read this book and much of it is spent congratulating each other for admitting they failed a client) And for the true believers: http://horan.asu.edu/cpy702readings/.../seligman.html
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The original study is complete but publishing in peer reviewed journals takes time, so I suppose that could be why there's not much out there yet. There is this though BPS Research Digest: How often does psychotherapy make people feel worse?.
I think another reason for some of the differences between the US and UK is that fewer people here can either access or use therapy as a form of treatment. We don't pay for our healthcare, so provision tends to vary based on where you live or the acuity of your problems. Thanks for the links SD, very interesting reading. |
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Apologies for posting twice in a row, but I thought you might also like to know how we appraise evidence in the UK. It's using this hierarchy The hierarchy of research evidence - from well conducted meta-analysis down to small case series, publication bias | Health Knowledge. Helps me judge how much credence to give something I read.
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I specifically want to look at scholarly publications they might have done or will done.
ETA: At some point I plan to contact them. Last edited by Anonymous37785; Apr 20, 2016 at 05:58 PM. |
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I dunno, measuring therapy outcomes seems like such a sketchy proposition. What questions do you ask and how precisely are they framed? What exactly is being measured and how do you factor in all the confounding variables that impact a person's life and mental-emotional state?
And if you add in publication bias, it gets sketchier still. In mainstream medicine suppression of negative outcomes seems to have become endemic, to the point where nothing can be trusted. For me previously, I was unconsciously compliant in the presence of authority and would likely have resisted criticism of my therapists. I would have played along if encouraged in any way to report that therapy was helpful. And if currently in therapy, with the financial and emotional investment required, one is likely going to want to believe it is helping, and to say otherwise might be a cognitive dissonance thing. So there is a timing variable too -- do you ask during therapy, at the completion of therapy, some time later, multiple times? |
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It won't harm anyone to just check and study the system's potential flaws. Thanks for this great thread. |
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Informed consent is a different matter. I am inclined to agree that therapists should point out the aims of therapy and how they will work with the client in order to achieve them. The client should understand what they are entering into before they decide to move forward with it. This was certainly made clear to me by both of the therapists I am currently working with, but again, it is obvious from the stories I have read on this forum that this is not something all therapists do. And that is regrettable.
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None of the many therapists I interviewed (over 30 appointments) before sticking with the two least awful, brought up gelling with them or warned about harm or explained how therapy was supposed to be useful and how to know if it was not. In my experience, it is not usual.
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I'm the result of bad therapy. There ya go......see what it's done to me?
Strange thing is, people are still worshipping my bad T. Go figure.. |
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That is unfortunate, SD. Maybe there is a difference between therapist training/practice in the US and in the UK? I don't know, but I have wondered on occasion.
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I am not in peril. I did not go in blindly or unarmed.
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I know. I am just saying that, in general, it is unfortunate that these therapists don't inform their clients before starting such an intense process with them. That is a problem.
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I know that these specifics are supposed to be published in the peer-reviewed publication, so I'd like to wait for it to come because I'd like to see the actual findings presented in the concrete context of data. Before that happens, this general information doesn't mean anything to me because no basis for it is shown. But I still appreciate that something is being done in that area. Now here is a short video about how much fraud there is in psychological studies and why |
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