[SoConfused623]

My therapist and I had a rupture a couple of months ago and things still seemed a tad stifled until yesterday. I was telling her about my relationship with a new guy that I've been dating and after about 10 mins of listing some of my annoyances with him my T says:

"SOCONFUSED623!!! YOU ARE IN A RED FLAG STORE THAT ONLY SELLS RED FLAGS AND YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A BLUE FLAG!!"

"SOCONFUSED623!!! YOU ARE IN A RED FLAG STORE THAT ONLY SELLS RED FLAGS AND YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A BLUE FLAG!!"

LMAO, OK, I get it!!

I really felt like she cared about me when she said those words. I hope that our relationship continues to strengthen.

[unaluna]

Telling it like it is! Shes not telling you to stop it, shes just telling you what it looks like to her?

[junkDNA]

haha. reminds me of last session with my T. he was talking in gollum's voice in LOTR saying "my precious" i said stop that . i have a low tolerance for creepy ****. he made this face and was like whatever!!! you like shows like the babadook!!!!! i was like yea thats a good one. he got me there. i just laughed

[SoConfused623]

Originally Posted by unaluna

Telling it like it is! Shes not telling you to stop it, shes just telling you what it looks like to her?

I think that her message was that there was no way she was going to let me get involved with someone that didn't treat me well.

Thanks

[SoConfused623]

Originally Posted by junkDNA

haha. reminds me of last session with my T. he was talking in gollum's voice in LOTR saying "my precious" i said stop that . i have a low tolerance for creepy ****. he made this face and was like whatever!!! you like shows like the babadook!!!!! i was like yea thats a good one. he got me there. i just laughed

It's nice to have moments like this from time to time...

[AncientMelody]

Humor is good for mental health