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Old May 05, 2016, 02:57 PM
Yismymindblank12 Yismymindblank12 is offline
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I needed help from therapists.

I end up with these quacks that don't try.

I either get two conversations, get medication or get another therapist.

The last person weren't qualified LPCC he was a social worker and I'm like what is wrong with this picture.

I always end up with these voodoo witch doctor types are everywhere and the therapists that maybe helpful either be a 300 dollar copay and no insurance coverage they will take or I get whomever or a christian service where they impose their stuff on me.

I don't have like decent options.

I'm so angry how my therapist gave up by ignoring me for 5 months when I was able to be consistent. I wasn't before, but now they were like forget you. We cannot see you or talk to you anymore.

I feel abandoned. I feel horrible.

I hate having these therapists that make me feel I'm some messed up person, when they were ignoring me even before this happened. They weren't trying that what pissed me off so much.
I didn't have a choice at the time.

It feels so messed up how I end up with people who just demonize you because of your life situation instead of helping you. They say your crazy and drop you off in a ditch somewhere and say cya sorry we can't do anything.

That's all I've had with therapists. It's rather offensive and I feel completely lost trying to get a new one. I feel it's a waste of money, because how I've been poorly treated by every single one I've had except one who knew my situation.

My city has one of the worst mental health care and my state defunded a lot of services and made it harder to get help. Mainly because of the political nature of heroin abuse is so rampant like the common cold here.

I can't tell you how insanely expensive is to just to pay a copay or get a loan to see a therapist.

I was on vocational rehab for medical issues and mental health, but my case just closed and I can't go back and I was thrown under the bus basically by the whole system again.

I'm frustrated just like how I was when it happened the first time when I was abused and social services didn't do anything to help me as a kid.

I'm just so angry how I can't get the help I needed and I'm just stuck here, because a lot of these therapists don't care.

The passive aggressive text I got from my therapist is such bull I'm so done. I don't even want help anymore.
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Old May 05, 2016, 07:28 PM
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I'm frustrated just like how I was when it happened the first time when I was abused and social services didn't do anything to help me as a kid.
I'm really sorry you are going through a lot.

It must feel like a lot of injustices related to the original trauma here? That always makes it so much worse.
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Old May 06, 2016, 08:11 AM
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Why do you think social worker cannot help you? My t is LSW not psychologist yet she is very good.

What type of insurance do you have? Why was your vocational rehab case was closed? It gets closed if you get and maintain stable employment. Is that the case? Are you employed full time? You can reopen the case if things don't go well.

What did your t say in his/her text? You have been saying ( on other sub forums) that you aren't seeing a t. So you do now or no? Have you talked to your Pdoc about not being able to locate a t that can help you?

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Old May 07, 2016, 05:35 PM
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Why do you think social worker cannot help you? My t is LSW not psychologist yet she is very good.

What type of insurance do you have? Why was your vocational rehab case was closed? It gets closed if you get and maintain stable employment. Is that the case? Are you employed full time? You can reopen the case if things don't go well.

What did your t say in his/her text? You have been saying ( on other sub forums) that you aren't seeing a t. So you do now or no? Have you talked to your Pdoc about not being able to locate a t that can help you?

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I have anthem blue cross, my case was closed yes because of steady employment and things were going well with that. It helped, but yes I am until I move to dallas.
I work very hard I had 2 jobs, but quit one to focus on the other, because one screwed me over alot.

My therapist text consisted of misinformed bull crap of me not showing up consistently and making these wild claims how I don't try or anything when in fact I have a lot, I did exactly what they suggested and contacted the people they wanted me to contact I never got a reply or a message on anything back from a place called north key the only time I received an answer was one woman who was a psychologist who was asking for 250 copay and doesn't take insurance she didn't even take out of network either even though it said on her page she did.

It was so stupid how I had to help myself and do it all by myself, because I had no one to help me.

When I wanted their help, they always told me, yeah,.... ok, well you should try this medication or this doctor. We can't help you that much at all.

At first they were sincerely listening to me, but slowly over time they started to throw anything I said under the bus and pushed me out of their appointments as much as possible. I was only inconsistent only 3 months ago, but that was my other therapist fault for scheduling me at the worst times when I worked then. They don't even know I drive and they don't care.

It's the most passive aggressive message I've read trying to put all the blame on me, when in fact I know it was their fault.

No like the psdoc and therapist gave up on me, like literally gave up on me. I was shocked how sudden and quick they just were like oh sorry you're not someone we can help ever bye.

I feel abandoned
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Old May 07, 2016, 05:39 PM
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I've had very little luck finding a good help for my needs on mental health, that's why I don't like going into hospitals or anything they don't do anything except put you in debt.

I was tired being treated like a crazy person when I'm very sane and around people quite often who are far worse off than me and I am the one who gets thrown under the bus.

As a kid I learned never trust the system for anything. The police won't help you, the psychiatrist won't help you, or anyone who you thought was a reliable adult to help you get through hell aren't going to and won't.

I learned that early on I'm not that unique or special in that regard. **** when you're abused no one cares to help you in the moment they think you are a problem for putting up with it or won't tell you until you already destroyed everything around you.

So I am probably not wanting to see anyone ever anymore. It's not helped me once for all the years I've been in therapy I think it's like 17 years I think. I'm 22 now. Yeah that's right I've been in therapy for 17 years.
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Old May 07, 2016, 08:47 PM
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That's very sad you didn't have a good t for all these years. Did vocational rehab services provide some therapy for you? I believe with your diagnosis you need to be consistently treated by Pdoc and or t. I don't understand how they just refuse to treat you. How can Pdoc just say I won't help you. Have you talked to your doc? Are you taking your Meds.Blue cross won't cover therapy? That sucks.

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