[Sarmas]

I've just had it today. Work was brutal past two days at work. I was on my feet and exhausted and then to wake up and do it again the next day. I'm a single parent in a divorce battle. My boys are in the therapy and I quit a month ago. So my 15 years screen on the phone broke this week and my phone was stolen a t a water park last week. I finally replaced mine $199 later which I will figure out to pay when my phone bill comes. My ex can contact me and the boys through my phone and my sons still works. I told my ex that I neede to replAce his phone but he's not interested in that. That's an extra for him and so it falls in my hands. The boys saw their therapist yesterday and the phone issue came up. We're looking away around it and trying to replace it. Meanwhile he's still using it. The therapist spoke to him today and he's making it seem that he doesn't have a phone. He's been wanting custody and wants to make things seem as if he has no communication with the boys. This is all after he spoke to the therapist. I told him that he hasnt texted him since Saturday and that he's had his phone this whole time. I contacted her letting her know that I'm handling the phone issue and to please not give details of what I'm doing with my boys and the phone to him. I told her I'm exhausted and doing this single parent thing which I love but j don't need he added stress. My son signed a paper saying that he doesn't want her to communicate anything other than he was in session. She feels compelled to tell him things. She wanted to change the scheduled day and time and she said well what time do you want so that I can tell him. She was very pushy in moving the time and informing him. So I'm not sure what's going on but we just want to live. It's almost like she tells the boys and I one thing and then she's doing other things behind our back. He seems to have the missing pieces that she knows and we never gave him. We found her contradicting herself a few times already and then she will attack me with it when I bring it to her attention. Frankly I'm so mentally exhausted and feel like I have no where to turn, plus I have no support system at that.

[Waterbear]

I can see why you are tired of it all. It sounds so exhausting and it isn't fair of her to be doing this. Your boys deserve some privacy and this is just causing upset and arguments. Hugs to you

[Victoria'smom]

Can you get another therapist?

[divine1966]

I wonder if therapy could be postponed as this particular t is very damaging. Why is she discussing things with kids father? Does this t have a supervisor. I would give supervisor a phone call. My daughter saw a t for about a year when in high school. I didn't know what was discussed. My daughter is not secretive so she usually told me topics of concern but t never reported nothing to me or her dad. This is so horrid

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