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#1
Jun 10, 2016, 07:47 PM
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He said to write if I felt bad. So I did. He doesn't respond often. Hasn't responded. I got more upset and sent another a day later. Nothing, no response. I just sent another saying goodbye. I'm not in a good place.
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 AllHeart, Anonymous37827, Anonymous43207, AnxiousGirl, Bipolar Warrior, BonnieJean, BudFox, Coco3, growlycat, junkDNA, LonesomeTonight, Out There, pbutton, precaryous, rainbow8, retro_chic, ruh roh, ThisWayOut
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#2
Jun 10, 2016, 07:58 PM
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I'm sorry you are struggling right now and t it's not responsive. Would texting or calling t to alert him to the emails be an option?
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#3
Jun 10, 2016, 08:27 PM
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idk. I think T doesn't care.
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| Bipolar Warrior, junkDNA, Pennster
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#4
Jun 11, 2016, 12:54 AM
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Talk about it during the next session. My therapist did not even respond to scheduling texts, I had to ask her to confirm the appointment a day before. I wanted to quit and all my instincts told me to not go see a person who does not give a damn. But I went and told her about it and she started responding within two business days. Talk to him.
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| Bipolar Warrior, LonesomeTonight
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#5
Jun 11, 2016, 03:10 AM
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Please call your T. I've done this--had a whole misunderstanding without T's involvement! His email may not be working, he could be away, T may care very much you don't have evidence one way or the other just yet. If you get in touch and T seems uncaring, then you have something to go by
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| Bipolar Warrior, LonesomeTonight
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#6
Jun 11, 2016, 06:40 AM
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thanks for the advice. i just feel like giving up right now. it's the weekend, so i'll just leave it alone. i got some sleep so i don't feel as bad. i don't think he ever cares anyway. there is no point in pursuing him. i should have never tried.
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| Anonymous37827, Anonymous37925, Bipolar Warrior, growlycat, junkDNA, LonesomeTonight
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#7
Jun 11, 2016, 07:31 AM
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Are you not in a good place because t hasn't responded or is there something else going on?
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#8
Jun 11, 2016, 08:13 AM
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Everything is going on. I lost my job due to poor management of the company. I've been working a temp job as much as possible, which means i've had very little sleep. I've been loosing weight because i can't afford to buy food. I have the weekend off and plan on resting. So, yeah, i guess it's not just him not responding.
Last edited by BrazenApogee; Jun 11, 2016 at 08:38 AM. |
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#9
Jun 11, 2016, 03:14 PM
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Ugh, Brazen. I would want t to respond. Too many things out of your control. Sorry that is all going on
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#10
Jun 11, 2016, 04:37 PM
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I don't think he cares. I'm giving up.
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| growlycat, junkDNA, precaryous
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#11
Jun 11, 2016, 05:12 PM
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Jun 11, 2016, 05:36 PM
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Oh Brazen. I am sorry
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#13
Jun 11, 2016, 07:50 PM
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Hang in there Brazen We care.
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| precaryous
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#14
Jun 11, 2016, 08:48 PM
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thanks everyone. it's fine. i should know better.
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| growlycat, precaryous
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#15
Jun 13, 2016, 08:42 PM
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sent another email. all i got was confirmation of appointment. i hate him now.
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| Anonymous37827, Bipolar Warrior, growlycat, junkDNA, kecanoe, LonesomeTonight, Out There, precaryous
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#16
Jun 13, 2016, 09:16 PM
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You have every right to call him out now. See what he says, and if not acceptable, give him your honest thoughts.
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| Bipolar Warrior, BrazenApogee, LonesomeTonight, precaryous
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#17
Jun 14, 2016, 01:47 AM
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You really need to tell him when you next see him. That he encouraged you to email and then does not respond has really hurt you by the sounds of it, not surprisingly, it would really hurt me too. Please try to tell him.
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| Bipolar Warrior, LonesomeTonight
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#18
Jun 14, 2016, 04:24 PM
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I will certainly try. I hate him so much now.
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| growlycat, precaryous, Waterbear
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#19
Jun 14, 2016, 05:07 PM
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There are many alternatives to 'he doesn't care'. It could be that his internet was not working; that he was away and had no internet; that he is behind on his email and hasn't opened yours...
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| growlycat, precaryous
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#20
Jun 14, 2016, 07:42 PM
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Quote:
 It makes no sense to me that he would encourage you to write without having the intention to respond in the first place. I hope you can let him know how his actions (or lack thereof) have affected you. Had he been more clear by simply saying, "please feel free to write me but know I will not be able to respond" would have saved you a lot of grief. What a di*k. When is your next appointment with him? |
| BrazenApogee, Trippin2.0
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#21
Jun 15, 2016, 06:31 PM
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Session today was stiff and mostly silent. I got the "legally I have to tell you to call 911 or got to the emergency room" lecture. I hate him. I'm too attached.
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| AllHeart, Anonymous37817, growlycat, LonesomeTonight, Pennster, precaryous, thesnowqueen, Twistedfate22, Waterbear
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#22
Jun 15, 2016, 08:16 PM
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Ew. I'd find a new t. I'm annoyed just cuz mine didn't say "feel better". I wouldn't have even gone back if I were you. But then again I also would not email my t about my life issues when out of session just cuz i feel like it would be asking her to work for free. But if he told you to then that is different and maybe I just haven't been lucky to have ys who I had that relationship with.
Sorry this happened to you. Really that stinks. I don't know why ppl become therapists if they are going to act like that. |
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Jun 17, 2016, 05:35 PM
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It's funny, my anger at him has given way to compassion for him. He clearly doesn't know the difference between being upset and being suicidal. Perhaps that is why he did not answer and was so stiff, he might have been scared. I have decided to let it play out for a while. It is my hope I can get through to him somehow. I will see if he is completely insensitive or just really bad at supporting someone.
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| Anonymous37817, awkwardlyyours, Waterbear
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#24
Jun 17, 2016, 05:49 PM
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Did tell him in your email that you were suicidal? You didn't mention that in your original post.
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#25
Jun 17, 2016, 05:51 PM
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No I did not. I said I was upset. He assumed and treated me like I was. The session was so uncomfortable I couldn't clarify. I don't think he gets me at all.
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| Anonymous37817, growlycat, Waterbear
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