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Folder icon How does your therapist handle ruptures?

View Poll Results: How does your therapist handle ruptures?
Well.....to....Awesome 34 69.39%
Well.....to....Awesome
34 69.39%
Badly.....to.....Are you really a therapist? 6 12.24%
Badly.....to.....Are you really a therapist?
6 12.24%
Pretend it didn't happen (who said therapy was about facing anything?0 5 10.20%
Pretend it didn't happen (who said therapy was about facing anything?0
5 10.20%
Other (This poll doesn't quite cover the mind-boggling fantastic-ness / awfulness of my therapist's response) 5 10.20%
Other (This poll doesn't quite cover the mind-boggling fantastic-ness / awfulness of my therapist's response)
5 10.20%
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Default Jul 02, 2016 at 08:04 PM
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Mine makes excuses, runs away and hides hoping no one else will find out. He has no experience so I shouldn't expect much right?
He should take that up with his supervisor. And if he doesn't he's not doing his job.

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Mine puts our relationship as the main goal to "heal" so he handles ruptures well. Always takes responsibility and will make changes. We talk about it forever the few times I've gotten the courage up to tell him I was mad at him. To me it's really weird that he's tolerant of me being mad at him and wants me to share that.

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Default Jul 02, 2016 at 08:51 PM
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I didn't answer as I don't think we have ever had a rupture. Sure there have been times when she has done or said something that upset me. However, it has never gotten to the point that I feel like it has stained our therapeutic relationship. I mention whatever upset me she usually apologizes for not being clear about what she meant and explains herself better. I know she would never intentionally upset me. I also have come to realize when something she says or does upsets me it is because it usually triggers an insecurity I have.

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