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Talking with T how I felt anger the wkend. About certain things in my past and then the anger switched to T. The more I visualized her not feeling angry as I was tge more angry I become.
T said, it's a form if mirroring you wanted. A connection. But why did I choose anger as a connection?? T said, because it's safer. There's not as much closeness in it. Me: oh yeah. I can get that. My closeness gene is well ruined lol |
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lol *hug*
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I so relate.
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I get angry at my T sometimes too, but I'm not sure if it's the same, exactly. Anger definitely feels safer, though, than when I start to idealize him. That feels unbearable.
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My apologies if my reply was out of order. I am sorry. Sometimes I just laugh at things in my life that seem like sad ironies. I'm not suggesting this is your situation and I'm sorry if I came across as insensitive.
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