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Old Jul 24, 2016, 08:08 PM
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Why do you hide food?
Comes the revolution, it'll be worth a lot on the black market.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 08:10 PM
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Yes, but you live in a place with incredibly steep streets so you wouldn't be hiding food at all.
I saw that picture, but sad to say, I don't actually live there. I pitched my yurt on the open steppes.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 08:12 PM
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I saw that picture, but sad to say, I don't actually live there. I pitched my yurt on the open steppes.
Canterbury Plains? with all the sheep? Learned that in senior geography.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 08:49 PM
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I picture us like
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that was awesome.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:03 PM
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No reply needed. Just have to say it.

The h wants to know when I'm going to be "ok" and what it's going to look like when I'm "ok"

Told him I didn't know what that would look like, but I believed and hoped that it will be good. Better. Ok. That's my hope and prayer.

He rants that he can't do everything that needs to be done by himself. Really??? No comment.

I asked him to give me space. Please.

There's the d card again. Ya know, right now I don't even care. Do it. A part of me says PLEASE.

I don't want to do this anymore. I'm numb.

Sorry to unload this. Just wanted to tell it to someone.

I'm numb.

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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:06 PM
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I am sorry, Trail.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:06 PM
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Thank you!! I feel really stupid right now.

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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:09 PM
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Evening, couch.

I am still up (it is only 10pm though). I need to go do a few more discussion posts before tomorrow for my masters course, but I have a bit of time still. Off during the day tomorrow, so I can do some then too. Have CVS tomorrow night.

I can't believe that summer is almost over.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:09 PM
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Nah, you're not stupid. All my ts say that you have to be intelligent to have DID. Is that a backwards compliment or what??
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:11 PM
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Nah, you're not stupid. All my ts say that you have to be intelligent to have DID. Is that a backwards compliment or what??


Ok! You just made me laugh and cry at the same time.

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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:11 PM
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My kitty was gone for 2 nights. And now he is back. Whew!
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:19 PM
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My kitty was gone for 2 nights. And now he is back. Whew!


Glad it's back safe and sound. The Couch 119: Come Join The Human Shelf!

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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:32 PM
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Canterbury Plains? with all the sheep? Learned that in senior geography.
I have moved on from there, following my herds across the tundra. My current plain is not so wide nor so flat.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:36 PM
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The h wants to know when I'm going to be "ok" and what it's going to look like when I'm "ok"

...

There's the d card again. Ya know, right now I don't even care. Do it. A part of me says PLEASE.
Was there anything in his vows about "in sickness and in health"?
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:53 PM
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I've been on my thyroid medicine for a few months now. It is not helpful in therapy at all. I reached for my water and knocked over T's Knick knack. It makes me feel jittery and disconnected in therapy...

I am not able to feel my feelings on this medicine but I feel terrible and exhausted if I don't take it.

I am not myself if I take it.
I am not myself if I don't take it.

Yet, I like the extra energy it gives me.

I need to call the endocrinologist. I've thought of taking half before therapy and taking the other half after therapy.
Maybe the Endo will reduce the dose?

Blech.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 09:56 PM
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I don't find my t's language to be indirect or self-absolving either one. Every now and then she'll say something jargony and she'll catch herself and chuckle a little and say "I'm sounding all therapist-y." I feel like she's mostly very real with me, and doesn't sound all 'typical therapist-y' very often at all. I'd say she's pretty much anything but typical.....
This is a bit of an old post, but I agree with my T as well. Any time she tries to sound "therapist-y" at me, I roll my eyes at her and say "Well, that was so therapist-y of you, how helpful," and she usually laughs. My T is very laid back, though.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 10:26 PM
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I'm so angry my face went completely numb and I'm trembling. Standing in my yard talking to a police officer who came to do a wellness check on my youngest daughter for some unknown reason was SO humiliating and I feel like the lowest form of trash.

Planning to call in to work tomorrow (as if I can afford that) to make sure my house is clean enough and the fridge is stocked enough that child services will find this case, like the last 4, unfounded.

What should I tell my boss? My pride doesn't want me to mention the truth, but making up excuses feels so wrong.

I'm not in the wrong here! I'm the only support my kids have (emotional or financial) but the jerk can send government workers here anytime he is feeling petty and disrupt our whole lives. When will he ever forget me and stop fighting dirty?

Sorry to ramble; thanks for hearing me. Trying to burn off the rage and humiliation so I can sleep, but I don't want my Couchies to be burdened with them, either.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 10:31 PM
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I'm here and hearing you. So sorry this is happening to you!

I wish there was something I could do, other than send you a hug.

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Old Jul 24, 2016, 10:37 PM
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This is a bit of an old post, but I agree with my T as well. Any time she tries to sound "therapist-y" at me, I roll my eyes at her and say "Well, that was so therapist-y of you, how helpful," and she usually laughs. My T is very laid back, though.
I like to use a phrase I learned from my kids: "Thank you, Captain Obvious"
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 10:39 PM
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I'm so angry my face went completely numb and I'm trembling. Standing in my yard talking to a police officer who came to do a wellness check on my youngest daughter for some unknown reason was SO humiliating and I feel like the lowest form of trash.

Planning to call in to work tomorrow (as if I can afford that) to make sure my house is clean enough and the fridge is stocked enough that child services will find this case, like the last 4, unfounded.

What should I tell my boss? My pride doesn't want me to mention the truth, but making up excuses feels so wrong.

I'm not in the wrong here! I'm the only support my kids have (emotional or financial) but the jerk can send government workers here anytime he is feeling petty and disrupt our whole lives. When will he ever forget me and stop fighting dirty?

Sorry to ramble; thanks for hearing me. Trying to burn off the rage and humiliation so I can sleep, but I don't want my Couchies to be burdened with them, either.
Ramble away. That's what we are here for.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 11:10 PM
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No reply needed. Just have to say it.

The h wants to know when I'm going to be "ok" and what it's going to look like when I'm "ok"

Told him I didn't know what that would look like, but I believed and hoped that it will be good. Better. Ok. That's my hope and prayer.

He rants that he can't do everything that needs to be done by himself. Really??? No comment.

I asked him to give me space. Please.

There's the d card again. Ya know, right now I don't even care. Do it. A part of me says PLEASE.

I don't want to do this anymore. I'm numb.

Sorry to unload this. Just wanted to tell it to someone.

I'm numb.

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Hugs. I'm so sorry your H isn't supportive.

You deserve support and care at whatever stage of your healing, for however long you need.
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Old Jul 24, 2016, 11:14 PM
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I'm glad my T apologises for her poor word choices when I point out how they hurt my feelings due to certain connotations implied with her word choices.
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Old Jul 25, 2016, 01:03 AM
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I yelled and cursed at my husband at a public park ( not a local one luckily)over some very mean things he said to my daughter. I'm am so upset over how how I acted in public. And how I acted in general.
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Old Jul 25, 2016, 02:42 AM
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Hugs to you, Trust. I think it's understandable to be very angry that your H has been verbally mean to your daughter. I can relate to wanting to be assertive rather than passive or aggressive. It can be hard when one is angry.
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Old Jul 25, 2016, 04:09 AM
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I yelled and cursed at my husband at a public park ( not a local one luckily)over some very mean things he said to my daughter. I'm am so upset over how how I acted in public. And how I acted in general.
You have every right to be angry and to express your anger.
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