[FindPeace]

I found out that my T was responding to my emails but for some reason I wasn't recieving them...Anyway last night one of my parts sent my T a very nasty email and I am terrified that she will terminate because of it....I want to call her secretary and tell her to delete the email but I don't know if I should..........any ideas what to do?? FP

[gostryter]

(((((((((((((((((((((((((findpeace))))))))))))))))))))))))))

i don't think your T will want to terminate because of the email....the email from one of your parts is just that part wanting to be heard....your T will understand

Send T an email explaining it was one of your parts. Also tell T you're not receiving responses that she sends (maybe try a new email server?). If you need to, call T to have her calm your fears.

A part of mine emailed my T and told her off. My T did very well with his email and actually calmed him down to make him realize he was scared of what was happening in therapy. It made him back off some.

[lauren_helene]

I don't want to make this worse for you by any means but I guess it depends on what you said in the email.

Was it a threat? or something very harmful or just one of those 'hey are you there I need you'...?

[FindPeace]

It was not a threatening email....It basicly was an attack of her ability as a T....I had a session today and I almost had to terminate...I had told my T that if this part ever attacked her again that I would terminate therapy to protect her....

But she told me by doing so I would be doing exactly what the part wanted me to do....My T wants to work with me and told me to stay in control and not let the part win....FP

((((((hugs))))) then it should be ok.. though the T ill probably tackle you some on this part and want to keep working on the issue with the part.. which is what you will really want - help with that part...