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Sep 23, 2007, 07:09 AM
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OK, so most of you know the kind of stromy relationship I have with my therapist.....the strangest thing has happened.....
I saw her briefly on Tuesday afternoon, and she reminded me about the next days appointment. She seemed like herself. I turned up the next day as scheduled, but was told that she refuses to see me any longer, that I traumatise her. I dont like her, never have..........but this has really gotten oo me. I dont understand. I feel so blah..........on auto pilot..... sorry, needed to vent.............
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Sep 23, 2007, 07:53 AM
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I am not so sure, but I don't think they can just drop clients like that! I think it is against theie code of ethics! I am so sorry that she did this to you, you have to remember it isn't you!!! It is her!!!!! All her!!! To me it sounds like she was having a little tantrum of her own!! Don't let this discourage you, you would be better off finding someone else that has more compassion and is there for YOU!!!
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Sep 23, 2007, 08:52 AM
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Ohhhh... grrr to T's like that... I had one terminate therapy... via e-mail... turns out it was her problem.. she couldn't handle her own life,,, and the way she did it hurt.. I can just imagine how you felt.. owie...
I have a good T.. that can handle things... so.. I would search out a "balanced" T.. |
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Sep 24, 2007, 06:16 PM
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Hey Silent,
no need to apologize! I don't get this at all...Who told you? It sounds rather harsh to me. The T herself didn't discuss this with you? How strange and unprofessional. I would insist on an explanation. You deserve at least that much. 
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Sep 24, 2007, 08:02 PM
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What happened was wrong, wrong, wrong. It was probably a good idea that the T decided that she couldn't cope anymore but the way she went around it was just plainly wrong. I wouldn't push for answers there is really no point. Your T did have an ethical obligation to find/refer you to a new T and support you until that happened. From the sounds of it you had a stormy relationship with the T so it probably worked out for your best interest in the long run. Find a new T that better suits you.
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