adios

Sep 30, 2007, 07:10 PM

adios amegos

have a nice life.

i'm fond of you guys 'n all, but its time for me to say:

adios amegos

'cause i'm not gonna stay somewhere where admin jumps on my back out of its own insecurity

i jump on myself enough as it is already

and i know the site isn't about them its about you guys

and that would be true if it wasn't for the fact that admin locks the threads and deletes the threads and deletes the posts and moulds and shapes your existence till newbies and lurkers see just what it is that the mods want them to see... the sanatised version with a good absence of me.

i figure... about a quarter of my posts go awol at this site. not really at this forum... but at this site more generally.

who would have thought abortion was a POLITICAL issue. where i come from its part of ethics and / or bioethics and if you trust people then sometimes they surprise you with their ability to discuss things rationally. but then... people also tend to live up to your expectations, you know.

adios amegos.

have a nice life.

MissCharlotte · Sep 30, 2007, 07:14 PM

Alex,

Please don't leave this forum. I learn so much from you.

I don't know what happened but....Can we help you to talk through your disagreement with the administration? How can we help you resolve this so that you don't feel pushed away?

Please let us know. We care about you here.

adios

sunrise · Sep 30, 2007, 07:20 PM

yeah, alex, I hope you stay. It will not be the same without you here in the psychotherapy forum. Can you just stay here in this forum and avoid the other forums where the mods are more active in censoring?

Didn't mouse go through something similar recently? I hope Mouse has some words of wisdom.

Alex, stay! (those are my words of wisdom!)

adios

ECHOES · Sep 30, 2007, 07:28 PM

I'm sorry this keeps happening to you here. I have seen so many really good discussions get locked down or deleted.

But, selfishly I have to say, oh please don't go! I enjoy your posts so much and have learned so much from you.

I love that you are a thinker and are curious and like to discuss, and that you are interested in other's points of view.

Yes in the Holy Roller US, abortion, even after 35 years of being legal, is still a political issue. It is because it's an ethical issue that it remains an unresolved political issue, I think.

Is there no place to think and explore and discuss anymore?!

If you go, I will miss you very much.

If I or someone could convince you to stay, I would be delighted.

PC is a much better place with you here.

mel4 · Sep 30, 2007, 07:30 PM

Alex, for the time that ive been on here, ive admired your free spirit and individuality. I want you to know that while i dont post that much, i really do admire what you have to say, and how you say it-not. While we cannot make you stay or go, i sure hope that you will continue to stand up and voice your opinions like you have for so long on here......

mel

Sep 30, 2007, 07:35 PM

pleaseeeeeeeeeeeee don't go... I understand the locked threads.. and the deleted posts...I do.. frustration..

I learn so much from you.. and you raise so many points... and you are so supportive.. and you make me "think".. and that helps me to get past things.. to see things in a different persective...

I respect and admire you.. and I enjoy your posts.. and your comments..
so for us... please stay....

Sep 30, 2007, 08:23 PM

While I understand your reasoning for wanting to go, I wish you wouldn't.

confused4ever · Sep 30, 2007, 08:33 PM

I have no idea what happened, but it would be a shame for you to leave, you are a great inspiration to this forum, and to alot of posters, I for one enjoy reading your posts and I learn alot from them.......I wish you would reconsider and stay here with everyone!