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Oct 08, 2007, 10:36 PM
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...there's no way I'm giving it to him.
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Oct 08, 2007, 10:46 PM
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Awwww! Then you made yourself a CD?
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Oct 08, 2007, 10:50 PM
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Not to be confused with my favorite comment:
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Oct 08, 2007, 11:06 PM
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Hahaha animals with edible objects on their heads are great.
I have the CD in my bag ready for tomorrow evening I think. In the last 3 months or so, T has given me 5 CDs. Why can't I give him one? I'm just overall nervous about seeing him tomorrow. I don't know... Perhaps the "I can't talk about sex because that means I want to %#@&#! you"comment has something to do with it. Can't imagine why though. Just speculating. |
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Oct 08, 2007, 11:10 PM
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You said "That" on the CD? I thought the CD was just mostly music? How scary is music? Maybe you're worried that when you next listen to the music yourself it will have T associations?
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Oct 08, 2007, 11:13 PM
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Well I said "that" on Friday so I guess that's why I'm generally nervous about the session.
As far as the CD --for some reason I keep thinking I am crossing a boundary by giving it to him. Even though I know now, that he will accept it. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? |
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Oct 08, 2007, 11:39 PM
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Are you worried about there not being enough boundaries? You've told him now that "I can't talk about sex because that means I want to %#@&#! you" so now especially you need very strong boundaries so that those feelings are successfully contained within a secure frame. It sounds like you see giving your T a CD as loosening a boundary, and this is especially scary given your "sex" comment last time. Interesting. What will you do? Maybe now is not the time for a CD, if it feels like loosening of boundaries to you and is threatening. Instead, maybe you should just focus on the sex stuff in session.
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