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View Poll Results: What best describes your feelings for your t? | ||||||
They are like a parent/family member to me |
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8 | 24.24% | |||
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They are somebody who I am in love with |
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1 | 3.03% | |||
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He/she is like an enemy |
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2 | 6.06% | |||
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They are like a friend |
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5 | 15.15% | |||
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They are like my client |
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1 | 3.03% | |||
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They are just my therapist |
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9 | 27.27% | |||
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Other |
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7 | 21.21% | |||
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How do you feel about your T?
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Hmmmm non of these fit how I feel about this new T. My ex-T no doubt was a gaurdian to me.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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T-1 like family member.
EMDR T like my therapist.
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All of them at except 'my client' at different times. Sometimes all of them at once.
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I’ve been seeing my psychiatrist for almost 25 yrs. At first, I was very afraid, then I fell in love with him, now I love him as a dear friend. I also have a new therapist who I’ve seen twice. I don’t think I’m going to be able to allow myself to trust him enough to really talk to him.
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Very much a father figure. With the recognized limitations of the fact that he's really my therapist.
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Friend like
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Fondness.
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I put "just my therapist." But I'm not crazy about the word "just". I find the therapeutic relationship very useful without any transference. The confidentiality and boundaries make it so that I can talk about things with him (like sex stuff) that I could never in a million years talk about with even the most perfect father or a close friend.
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