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Old May 07, 2018, 09:56 PM
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With Mothers Day coming up here I was planning on sending my T a quick e-mail to just let her know I was thinking of her and that I appreciate her being a mother figure to me. We e-mail often so the issue is not whether to send an e-mail or not but whether the content and sending it on Mothers Day is ok? She is fully aware that I see her as a mother figure and is completely ok with this. Just not sure whether acknowledging it so formally on Mothers Day is normal/acceptable.

Anyone else done this or has any opinions on this?

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Old May 07, 2018, 10:33 PM
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Sure why not? It's no different than emailing them Merry Christmas or something but just realize since it is a Sunday, she may not even see it on the actual day itself. Go for it though.
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Old May 07, 2018, 11:30 PM
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I feel the same way about my T and fathers day.

The last time my brother and I gave our father a card for fathers day was when I was 13 and my brother was 10.

Do what is right for you. There's nothing wrong with telling any T that you appreciate them.

Thanks for this!
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Old May 08, 2018, 04:18 AM
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I texted t on mothers day one year... with a happy mother's day

he said you too.. and that I've become a good mother to my inner child
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Old May 08, 2018, 10:30 AM
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I did this, I think it is fine if your T has accepted your transference.
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