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#1
Jun 01, 2018, 05:37 PM
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Yes, all the time, for me
 Maybe sitting in silence might be better (for me) 
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Jun 01, 2018, 05:44 PM
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I am sure I have. Others have said things I didn't like or disagreed with. It's just part of being human and if the other human is important enough to me, I work on fixing that together, or apologizing if I have offended.
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True happiness comes not when we get rid of all our problems, but when we change our relationship to them, when we see our problems as a potential source of awakening, opportunities to practice patience and learn.~Richard Carlson |
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Jun 01, 2018, 05:47 PM
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Quote:
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#4
Jun 01, 2018, 10:58 PM
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Yep... She gets really really frustrated when I say I'm disgusting. I used to ask her nearly every session if she finds me disgusting. Until she said she'll never answer that question ever again because it's "reassurance seeking" and the final answer is "Never."
That was a year or so ago and I don't ask her anymore but still say I'm disgusting. Which she has told me "I feel really frustrated whenever you say that about yourself." She also tells me she feels hurt whenever patients (including me) say "You only care about me because of your job!" |
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#5
Jun 01, 2018, 11:03 PM
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Not on a personal level, as far as I know. There have been many things I have said and continue to say that my therapist does not "like" to hear as a therapist. But she's not affected personally by them
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#6
Jun 01, 2018, 11:07 PM
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why would it matter whether a therapist likes it or not?
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Please NO @ Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live. Oscar Wilde Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional. |
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#7
Jun 02, 2018, 12:02 AM
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Definitely. When I get into my self-defeating and self-sabatoging attitude she makes it very clear that she won’t stand for it and that I need to do better/that I’m further along in my progress than to do that. She shows her anger to me over it.
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#8
Jun 02, 2018, 07:20 AM
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of course, we are human, so are they
they just have to know how to handle such moments |
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#9
Jun 02, 2018, 07:20 AM
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I once laughed when talking about a suicide attempt (the day after it happened). That's the only time I can recall him getting visibly upset about something I said. Probably he doesn't like other things I've said or done either, but that's pretty normal in relationships, nobody likes every single part about another person.
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#10
Jun 02, 2018, 04:27 PM
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She reacts quite strongly when I call myself stupid, or say that something I am feeling is stupid....I'm grateful, really, because it helps me realise that she is on my side.
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'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
| Fuzzybear
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