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Default Dec 22, 2018 at 12:36 PM
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Artie you've worked really hard at work, and I don't think you would deliberately do anything to jeopardize that, but I can understand the fear of not knowing 100% what you sent.


Perhaps this coming up now gives your head something else to focus on other than missing your son.


Personally I'd still eat the dounut even if I was on a diet. I don't count calories but 1 every now and then doesn't have to be cut out completely.
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Default Dec 22, 2018 at 12:37 PM
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What does the rabbit thing mean? I've seen it here before but not understood it. Cupboards for food or looking to find something to do? For the first it's easy to want comfort.
The Navajo word for rabbit is "gah". So we use it to mean gah.
 
 
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Default Dec 22, 2018 at 12:39 PM
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Hugs, Jersey.

The work you do is valuable. It’s not greedy to get paid for valuable work even when you don’t need the money. The gifts for the children are very generous already.

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Default Dec 22, 2018 at 12:39 PM
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My other 'part time job' is comfort eating.

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I'm so sorry, Jersey. Are you sure it's really over?
I think it has been for quite awhile. I think the fight today was the final straw. He says I waste my time on these nanny jobs. Does he have any idea how hard it is caring for other people’s kids? He says I don’t contribute. That’s not true-I put the same amount towards the bills that he does. He says I don’t love him. Again not true-I would waste 19 years of my life on someone I don’t love. It was a really big blow up.
 
 
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Got in a big fight with H. He left. It’s over.


Oh Jersey. I am so so sorry.

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My other 'part time job' is comfort eating.
When do you next see R?

I tend to also do this a lot, so my weight does tend to yo-you a bit. I was eating because of stress even though I wasn't hungry. It sounds dumb, but I find chewing gum helpful as it gave my mouth something to do.Do you know what your triggers are?

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Got in a big fight with H. He left. It’s over.


I'm sorry Jersey.

Do you have anyone to support you right now, a friend you could call?

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Default Dec 22, 2018 at 01:08 PM
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That middle part - yes. Thank you.


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Default Dec 22, 2018 at 01:15 PM
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When do you next see R?

I tend to also do this a lot, so my weight does tend to yo-you a bit. I was eating because of stress even though I wasn't hungry. It sounds dumb, but I find chewing gum helpful as it gave my mouth something to do.Do you know what your triggers are?

I think I eat the things I don't want to feel. I'm harbouring anger at the moment, without really knowing where the heck it's come from. I'd say it's good to feel something, but this is rough. My next appointment is the 10th of January. I can't stand gum, but mints work for me.

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I’m really sorry, Jersey.

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I'm sorry Jersey.

Do you have anyone to support you right now, a friend you could call?
I went to my moms to chill out for a bit but I’m back home because I have to work tonight.
 
 
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I have to compose myself so I can go to work later. I’m going to go find some distractions.
 
 
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I have to compose myself so I can go to work later. I’m going to go find some distractions.
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Ugh I'm as stressed as hell, christmas can **** off already.
 
 
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Ugh I'm as stressed as hell, christmas can **** off already.
It'll be over soon.
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