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Poohbah
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Jan 08, 2019 at 01:48 PM
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I think most of you know that my T is on medical leave (I haven't seen her since November 7, 2018.. She had some complications, so she spent more time in the hospital, but then they sent her home.
She offered text to me, as a way to "maintain the connection with me," but it soon became clear (to her, and sometime later, to me) that texting was only revving up my anxiety, and so, via text, told me that she could not text with me anymore. She directed me to listen to her outgoing voicemail, which would be updated at least weekly. Well, it's over a week, and the message hasn't changed. THAT is revving up my anxiety! So finally, I left a VM message, saying that I hoped she is okay. Stay tuned. |
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Poohbah
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Jan 08, 2019 at 08:11 PM
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Update: I heard from T. She'll be out on medical leave for even longer, because the bug she picked up in the hospital is hanging on, despite antibiotics.
This was on a voicemail she left me. I've tried to identify how I feel about it and mostly, LC is sad. Big Cool feels numb. |
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Jan 08, 2019 at 08:56 PM
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I am glad that you heard something back, even if it was not exactly what you wanted the news to be.
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Jan 08, 2019 at 09:18 PM
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Oh Cool, I understand both Big and Little Cools reaction. I am sure it is very difficult.
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Jan 09, 2019 at 03:26 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear this! Please use this forum meanwhile for support. Hugs.
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Jan 09, 2019 at 07:54 AM
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I'm glad she got back to you, but sorry to hear she will be out longer than expected.
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Jan 09, 2019 at 12:54 PM
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HUGS Coolibrarian This is such a hard time and then to learn that it's going to be even longer, I'm so sorry...Kit
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