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Poohbah
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#881
I’m getting ready to do another initial phone call in a few minutes. This is what it’s going to be like everyday until I secure a position. Phone call after phone call after phone call. Meeting after meeting after meeting. I usually end up talking to 30 families or so when looking for a new one.
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Magnate
Member Since Feb 2016
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#882
Closing on the new house today. I'm still nervous and/or excited.
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#884
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#885
__________________ "I would rather have questions that can't be answered than answers which can't be questioned." --Richard Feynman |
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#886
wondering now why i wanted to stay in this relationship with h. my appointment with the surgeon is this morning and he suddenly has a terrible cold and is moaning and groaning and holding his head and doing this extremely forced, fake-sounding cough to exemplify how he obviously feels worse than i possibly could. i told him to just go back to bed and i'll deal with this myself. inwardly crying. i don't understand him at all i just don't. i feel miserable.
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#887
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Pain will be always be pain but it's not a competition. Do you have anyone who could take you to the hospital? Could you get a taxi there? __________________ |
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Always in This Twilight
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#888
Hugs, Art, I'm sorry he can't be more supportive of you right now when you need it.
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Young Butterfly
Member Since Jan 2012
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#889
And I just got a call from t’s office canceling my appointment for today. An hour before my appointment. Apparently he is sick. Having a hard time trusting t right now.
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Young Butterfly
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#890
The fact that office called and he didn’t text to cancel is suspiciously and... the fact that they can get me in tomorrow instead is really suspicious because t is never that open that anybody can get in the next day.
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Young Butterfly
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#891
And I guess the fact that I am suspicious of t canceling really puts into perspective where or relationship is at this time. I wonder if this can be salvaged at this point.
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Always in This Twilight
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#892
Ugh, I'm sorry Healed.
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#893
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I'm so sorry he's been flaky and cancelled at the last minute, especially with everything you're struggling with. Are you safe at the moment? __________________ |
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#894
Proof to me that divine intervention exists. I somehow scored 98% on the exam.
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#896
Warning: possibly unsupportive post: Is this the appointment that you confirmed late last night after not answering him all day?
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#897
H has changed his mind and brought me to appt. Waiting to see surgeon now. I am very nervous.
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#898
__________________ Ich weiß nicht, was soll es bedeuten. Daß ich so traurig bin. “I do not know what this can mean. I am so very sad.” —Heinrich Heine |
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Young Butterfly
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#899
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Yes, I confirmed at about 8pm last night. I don’t think when I confirmed the appointment has anything do with him canceling today. And me taking time to answer his email had more to do with me being busy yesterday than not wanting to answer (because I really didn’t know if I wanted to go or not). I am really not sure where I have much wrong in this situation honestly Una. I may be a littler over sensitive to some issues they have compounded over the last couple of months. But I have never crossed t’s boundaries, followed through with safety plans. So for him to accused me of expecting too much in the midst of what is going on with me right now.. is quiet frankly a huge mistake on his part. And it may be one that can’t be righted. And whatever the reason for him canceling today, legitimate or not. It’s pretty poor timing. __________________ "You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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Young Butterfly
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He did email me yesterday and asked if he should expect me on Monday or not. He emailed at about 12:30.. I emailed him back at 8pm. Partly because I was busy running an event (that he was at) and because I just didn’t know if wanted to go. __________________ "You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
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