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Jun 15, 2019, 09:21 AM
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creeped out by hundreds of lurkers, ugh
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Jun 15, 2019, 01:24 PM
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Yes I think T's role model what "good" parents were supposed to be like. It has helped repair some of the damaged done but it has also caused parts, especial young parts, to see T as a parent and they cry so much and throw tantrums when I visualize the reality that T is not our parents and will be tossing us out of the nest eventually with no further contact.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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Jun 15, 2019, 06:29 PM
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I hope the op comes back and clarifies. Its hard when a thread stays open but the original post was deleted.
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Jun 15, 2019, 06:49 PM
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I have a related PTSD trigger. Do you mind? Obviously I would delete the thread if I could, but the site restricts such permissions. |
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Jun 15, 2019, 06:50 PM
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Why did you have to say that so rudely? I sincerely was interested that’s all. I’m sorry you are triggered.
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#6
Jun 15, 2019, 06:53 PM
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You're right. I'm sorry Sarah. I had to take an extended break from therapy and am not handling it so well. Especially with Father's Day coming up. It sucks to not feel safe posting here.
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#7
Jun 15, 2019, 07:31 PM
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So sorry. Did not mean to trigger you.
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Jun 17, 2019, 01:57 PM
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My t said he reparented me
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Jun 17, 2019, 02:18 PM
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I thought the woman would have been a worse parent than the ones I had
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Jun 17, 2019, 10:28 PM
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When the therapist echoes things the mother has recently said, it pisses me off. Recently, she did that about something to C and even she was annoyed and snapped that she sounded just like her mom. The therapist said "uh oh."
Sometimes she is also kind of annoying about school stuff. Like doing my homework and whatnot. 
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