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Poohbah
Member Since Jan 2020
Location: Somewhere I'm working to leave
Posts: 1,243
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#981
@captgut please ask T for an extra session. It wasn't, and never EVER is your fault. My friend, please know that people care about you, and you do not deserve all this trauma.
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Blueberry21, captgut, SlumberKitty
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captgut, LonesomeTonight
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,830
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#982
Dear T,
I wasn't sure what I was looking for from that very brief email I sent you last night, but my reaction to your even briefer reply showed me what it was: validation for my feelings regarding what P said. And you gave that to me. So, thank you. Love, LT |
goatee, SlumberKitty
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Magnate
Member Since Feb 2017
Location: North America
Posts: 2,360
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#983
Dear T,
I, um, lied. I have thought about you holding me when I cry but I was too ashamed to tell you that. I’m going to try to email you tonight to tell you that. -c |
Blueberry21, Lemoncake, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty, WarmFuzzySocks
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Aug 2019
Location: hanging from a cloud
Posts: 3,002
4 192 hugs
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#984
PDOC, today you didn't make me feel welcome. I felt that I was just a number and that you didn't have time for me. However, your hug was as good and comforting as ever.
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Lemoncake, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Roses are falling.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,733
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#985
I found a short course in psychodynamic counselling I'd actually like to do at your old university in London.
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
SlumberKitty
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 4,816
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#986
Thank you for remembering today.
__________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Roses are falling.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,733
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#987
Quote:
Lol Kinda awkward finally asking for you a session for the third time and you offering one which doesn't go with my schedule. EDIT: Hey 5pm session! __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." Last edited by Lemoncake; Jan 15, 2020 at 03:31 PM.. |
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SlumberKitty
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Roses are falling.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,733
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#988
I'm back to my yes no thing.
I don't want the session I just made with you. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
Blueberry21, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty, WarmFuzzySocks
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jan 2014
Location: n/a
Posts: 4,819
10 375 hugs
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#989
I am so thankful I allowed the two of you to talk back in the beginning. I was surprised yesterday when EMDR T told me that you told her in the beginning how you definitely played a mother figure role in my life. While I always thought of it as a caring older female relative (like an aunt) I always feared you didnt feel the same way. I know we had a unique relationship but was always afraid to say the important role you played in my life out of fear of rejection. To hear you knew and on some level felt the same way and you expressed that to somebody else really warned my heart. I am thankful it was not all in my head.
Course in true therapy fashion when I mentioned that you had never mentioned anything like that to me, EMDR T and I got into a discussion of what to tell and then why or why not. __________________ |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Quietmind 2
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Magnate
Member Since Feb 2017
Location: North America
Posts: 2,360
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#990
Dear T,
Okay I was brave and emailed you and now I’m freaking out. I get why you won’t email me back but it’d be nice if you did that thing where you go “thanks for telling me let’s discuss further” or something just so I dunno I know you’re not totally repulsed by me or whatever. I’m really freaking out here. I wish you would rescue me from it. Aaaaaaaaaaaugh, -c |
Blueberry21, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty, WarmFuzzySocks
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Quietmind 2
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Member
Member Since Dec 2019
Location: London, UK
Posts: 111
4 480 hugs
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#991
Thank you very much for the extra session today even though I’ve been wanting to cut back on them overall.
Thank you for listening and validating me in telling me it wasn’t right for that person to have ever hit me. Thank you for also helping with exploring my mixed feelings towards that person. Thank you for validating my feelings about my former employer as well, and saying that you’ll go to bat for me no matter what. Love, Blueberry |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Aug 2019
Location: hanging from a cloud
Posts: 3,002
4 192 hugs
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#992
I don't know why I agree to see a dermatologist. It's really triggering me right now to think about
Possible trigger:
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Blueberry21, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Quietmind 2
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Elder
Member Since Oct 2008
Posts: 7,361
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#993
T: Still really upset. Ugh, it sucks so bad. I hate that I only get to see you every other week.
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Quietmind 2
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Roses are falling.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,733
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#994
Cancelled the extra session I asked for.
It's just huge amounts of shame coming up for me and that don't deserve it. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty, WarmFuzzySocks
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