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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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#981
No, if you have somebody on ignore, then when they post, you only see their name, not the content of what they posted. And you are right, they cant post on a thread you start, or quote you in a post (aka reply to you). There is a loophole where you CAN see temporarily see a single ignored post without going thru the process of un-ignoring the person, so you dont drive yourself crazy.
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Grand Magnate
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#982
Thanks everyone. I think I've got it sorted now and I've deleted my post.
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Poohbah
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Poohbah
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#984
Hugs LT.
Lemoncake, you're such a thoughtful person. You deserved a better dad. My sister had an aunt read to her when she was young because our parents never read to us or played with us. I'm envious because that aunt never liked me since I was really young and no one read to me. SlumberKitty, hugs if wanted. Tbh I could only stop SH for long periods after I had other coping mechanisms and had addressed some of the underlying reasons why I SHed. |
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Poohbah
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#985
Re: Sex and sexual trauma, talking about it in therapy.
I find talking about sexual trauma difficult, but it's still easier than talking about masturbation or consensual sex for me. Only sexual thing I can talk about easily is the messed up beliefs my parents and abusive sibling hold: eg being "property", reproductive coercion, sexual "purity", invasive questions no parent should ask their adult child regarding their sex life etc My T uses a mix of euphemisms (maybe because I'm so ashamed) and the proper words.
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Roses are falling.
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I find it very hard to talk about sex stuff with T too. There's still a lot of shame there but my opinion of it has changed because of him.I went from it's okay to be degraded to heck no for loving couples only I've always emailed stuff and told him not to reply back. I think for the PAP smear it's okay to go at a pace your comfortable with. Do you think you'd feel a bit more comfortable with a female doctor? Some places have photos of their offices online- so you'd know what to expect. In the UK there's a professional body for all sex therapists, maybe you have something similar? This might sound dumb but maybe a book by a T would be a good place to start to explain what they actually do so you feel more comfortable. __________________ |
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#987
Couch 211: The Cambozola couch
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Couch 211: The Central Perk couch
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Couch 211: The Stoffle couch
In honour of Stoffle Yikes I didn't know honey badgers were this smart. __________________ |
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