This is a song my ex t played for me in therapy to try to describe feelings and the dynamics of our therapy.

Do you think it is appropriate?

- Hungry Heart

Your sugar-sweet red mouth
is sucking all words spherical
even in fight your lips won't surrender
to mine.

At your glowingly hot cheeks
I burn my fingers
even when you throw me to the ground
I think myself a winner.
Whatever is happening to my will?
you render my will will-less.
You are ice; ice cold.

My hungry heart is pierced
by a bittersweet pain
tell me how far, how far, how far, how far
do you want to go?

My hungry heart is pierced
by a bittersweet sword
just tell me how far, how far, how far, how far
will you go?

Your eyes look right through me
at somebody else
when your hands are touching me
they're following a plan.

With your rough angel tongue
you're penetrating me
you hold me tight, what's going on?

if I press, too, you're letting go.

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[Out There]

Did you have any concerns about your therapy with your Ex T ? When looking at the dynamics does it make sense or seem appropriate ? On the surface it would appear a little odd , and that you're questioning it now seems important

I am in the process of a complaint... It's just a small piece of the evidence but I was curious if ppl thought it was fine to play a song like this to their client in discribing the relationship

[autonoe]

I would feel pretty confused and disturbed if my therapist sent me this song in reference to our relationship.

To be honest, I feel gas lighted.

I go from... Maybe it's just me and he did nothing wrong. I keep needing reassurance from my current t, because I have been made to feel it's just me. There's lies of omission in my clinical notes, things being twisted or minimised.

I feel hopeless sometimes

[divine1966]

Most certainly it’s odd and could be used as evidence of your ex t being unprofessional

[Rive.]

That is not appropriate. That seems like something you would send to a lover NOT a client.

[ArtleyWilkins]

Umm. No. Not appropriate (or even a good set of lyrics if truth be told)

[LonesomeTonight]

When I first saw title, I thought it was going to be the Bruce Springsteen song and thought, "Yeah, that's fine." Then I read the lyrics (completely different song). The end part about the "rough angel tongue penetrating" struck me as particularly sexual and thus inappropriate.

[downandlonely]

It seems very sexual and not appropriate for therapy. I wouldn't be comfortable with a therapist telling me it described our relationship.

[SlumberKitty]

No, no, and no.