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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 4,799
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#321
I am really trying to do this 'one day at a time' thing.
Teletherapy in many ways is the ultimate trust fall. __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
ArtieTheSequal, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,700
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#322
I actually need to go back to London to sort out a lot of things.
__________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." Last edited by Lemoncake; Jul 10, 2020 at 04:40 PM.. |
ArtieTheSequal, SlumberKitty, unaluna
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,768
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9 75k hugs
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#323
Dear T,
Thanks for the validation and support today. What's funny is that D played in the backyard with me for a bit a couple hours after our session. Hoping I can build on that... Love you, LT |
ArtieTheSequal, SlumberKitty
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Grand Member
Member Since Mar 2013
Location: USA
Posts: 876
11 601 hugs
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#324
I’m convinced you actually hate me, are sick of me, and wish I would get out of your life forever.
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ArtieTheSequal, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Member
Member Since Jul 2019
Location: Uk
Posts: 26
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#325
Is it true?
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ArtieTheSequal, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jun 2018
Location: Somewhere
Posts: 3,355
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#326
I feel bad.
Will I ever see you again? __________________ Life is hard. Then you die. Then they throw dirt in your face. -David Gerrold Last edited by susannahsays; Jul 10, 2020 at 08:27 PM.. |
ArtieTheSequal, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Elder
Member Since Jan 2010
Location: Where? US
Posts: 5,621
14 101 hugs
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#327
What a day!!! And yet I feel fine. I'm in control of what I do. Which is a first for me.
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ArtieTheSequal, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty, zoiecat
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
Posts: 7,239
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#328
I'm so trying to figure this out. Who/what is in the center of my guilt complex. I have this pretty much pathological need to be seen and acknowledged as "good". Why? Because I grew up with it drilled into my head how bad I was? So I thought if I could only be seen as "good" I might finally be enough?
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
Posts: 7,239
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#329
Do you know the answer but you are waiting for me to figure it out for myself?
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Tweaky Dog
Member Since Aug 2011
Location: England
Posts: 4,799
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#330
'From victory I tried
To match eternal light, with how I live my life Of course, I was forced to retreat From victory, I accept defeat...' Victory - The Avett Brothers __________________ 'Somewhere up above the great divide Where the sky is wide, and the clouds are few A man can see his way clear to the light 'You have all the grace you need for today, and today is all that matters.' - Steve Austin |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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puzzclar
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Veteran Member
Member Since Jan 2018
Location: Somewhere in a cloud
Posts: 719
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#331
Hello negative transference....
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Writing my way through...
Member Since Feb 2020
Location: In the desert
Posts: 7,239
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#332
I am so looking forward to discussing with you your choice of that particular word when describing how I was acting. And to talking more about what's at the center of my guilt complex.
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Grand Member
Member Since Aug 2017
Location: Closet
Posts: 842
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#333
There's stuff I want to talk about that I can't bring myself to say. There are things I have talked about once but they're still here. The memories and feelings just come up again and again and again.
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Grand Magnate
Member Since Jun 2018
Location: Somewhere
Posts: 3,355
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#334
I feel appreciative of you today.
__________________ Life is hard. Then you die. Then they throw dirt in your face. -David Gerrold |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Elder
Member Since Oct 2008
Posts: 7,361
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#335
i wonder if you'll forget me next week too?
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ArtieTheSequal, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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catches the flowers
Member Since Jul 2019
Location: Downtown Vibes, California
Posts: 15,701
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#336
I really miss you. I wish you would have made a bigger deal of it when my internet was down for our most recent session.
I'm feeling jealous because you'll be vacationing with people you don't live with, yet you're seriously terrified of catching covid. If you're on vacation with those people, why won't you see me f2f in your office at this time? I'm going to ask you about it. __________________ |
LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Veteran Member
Member Since Jan 2018
Location: Somewhere in a cloud
Posts: 719
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#337
I'm scared we'll never be in the same room again.
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LonesomeTonight, LostOnTheTrail, SlumberKitty
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Luna's offical mini me.
Member Since May 2017
Location: Cafe Nervosa.
Posts: 9,700
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#338
Pregnancy dream might be triggering:
Possible trigger:
And if you want the truth I am jealous of your three family holidays a year with your daughter when I've never been on one. If you leave can leave me for a month, what difference does another three weeks of canceled sessions really make? __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
ArtieTheSequal, atisketatasket, LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Always in This Twilight
Member Since Feb 2015
Location: US
Posts: 20,768
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#339
I have this fear about my T as well. And that even if we do resume in-person sessions, he'll never be willing to shake hands again. I want to ask him about the hand-shaking thing, but am afraid of his answer. (Hope it's ok that I replied!) |
Merope, SlumberKitty
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Veteran Member
Member Since Jan 2018
Location: Somewhere in a cloud
Posts: 719
6 479 hugs
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#340
Of course it’s ok! I’m sorry you’re feeling this way too, it really sucks. I’m trying to tell myself I’m just being paranoid, of course we’ll see our Ts again! This is just a phase that will pass. I don’t always believe it, but I’m doing my best. I’m sure in time your T will be ok with hand shaking again, though it might take a while.
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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