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Luna's offical mini me.
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#961
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Walkers Crisps Monster Munch Pickled Onion Snacks Box, 40 g (Pack of 30): Amazon.co.uk: Grocery P.s It's not pathetic to worry about someone who means a lot to you. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Luna's offical mini me.
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#962
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This year for my sisters I just sent Korean noodles, Ferrero rocher chocolates and even more 100% slave free chocolate. I don't buy for my parents or my brother. and I'm not doing gifts for T this year either, but my brother and I have agreed to get something for H the pharmacists brother. I always gave him a box of Scottish shortbread every year from M&S whenever I came back to London, so it will be the same. __________________ "Love, like life, flows Through the heart. Feel the thrill of the flow And say nothing." |
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Writing my way through...
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Location: In the desert
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#963
i don't wanna show up for class tonight. i'm tired. i want to either sleep or run away from home. things had been going so well for awhile at home i should have been wary. h is a jacka$$.
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Writing my way through...
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#964
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what i bolded - L does this to me. Also i'm glad your t was helpful and able to talk you through them. |
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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Always in This Twilight
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#965
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Thanks Lemon--those snacks sound good--wait, does that confirm the monster thing? And it helps to hear you say it's not pathetic to worry about him. I mean, I know that deep down. I really think some of this is messages I got from my mom as a kid. Where it's almost like my love or caring for people is a bad thing. Plus the way Dr. T reacted to things like that in the first year or two of seeing him, I worried. But he was very accepting of what I said, as he has been about such things since I returned a year ago and particularly since the start of the pandemic. |
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Writing my way through...
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#966
we saw some friends last night for dinner (outside) and i gave them each one of the crocheted christmas trees. they loved them. why h is a jacka$$: one of them asked why we haven't been to hawaii yet (it came up in conversation) and h looked at me pointedly and said "Artie?" and then said it was because I hadn't lost enough weight yet. I was SO embarrassed I got up and went to the restroom just to get away. I hate him. I hate him so much.
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Always in This Twilight
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#967
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I'm sorry your H is being an *****. You don't deserve that. I hope things get better. And that class goes well. How much class do you have left? |
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ArtieTheSequal, SlumberKitty
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Writing my way through...
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#968
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LonesomeTonight, SlumberKitty
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SlumberKitty
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Legendary Wise Elder
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#969
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__________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
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Always in This Twilight
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#970
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Ugh, that's awful, I'm so sorry... (I wrote my other comment before seeing this.) |
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#971
Artie, I'm sorry your H is being a gigantic jerk. You deserve much much better. I'm sorry he did that to you. What an insensitive *^(&*^(&*
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Magnate
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#972
So, weird moment in therapy this morning. I mentioned that the scientist guy I met and liked on Saturday is from X country. T paused and said, "I think I'm about to say something a little racist." I was like, "um, *excuse* me?" Then T said, "well, I'm half [ethnicity from X country] so I feel like I can say this." I was totally shocked because physically he doesn't at all look like he is half [ethnicity from X country] but I laughed a little and said, "okay, so perhaps in this one particular instance I'll allow it." Then he said, "well, men from X country can sometimes be narcissistic in a particular way..." and went on to warn me about how this could go wrong.
It's especially interesting because in his book there's a line about him feeling unloved by a narcissistic parent (he doesn't specify a gender). I wonder if that line is about his dad from X country. In any event, it was a very odd conversation. |
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#973
Artie, I'm sorry your husband is an [insert all the expletives here].
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Magnate
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#974
Ah hell, the power’s out.
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Always in This Twilight
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#975
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Wow, that seems really awkward. And also very revealing about your T. Interesting about the line in his book. |
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Big Poppa
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#976
By the way, that "platitude" was a hard won life lesson. I worked it out for myself. I'm sorry you didn't find it useful.
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Grand Magnate
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#977
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I agree it's not pathetic. I've expressed my concerns for health and safety before as well. |
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#978
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Poohbah
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#979
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Child of a lesser god
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#980
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So the guy who eats ice cream out of the tub and got told this weekend he needed to exercise more gets to judge other peoples’ weight? Not when I rule the world. Hawaii would probably take one look at him and send him home. |
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