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My doctor's appointment was okay yesterday. The BP reading at the dr's office was fine. Sigh. Even though it has mostly been high at home with a few days that have been fine. Dr didn't seem to want to believe me even though I had the results there in black and white. She did seem to believe me more when I told her I had gone to donate platelets but couldn't due to low iron and they said my BP was high. Though they didn't tell me what it was and I didn't ask. She was like you should have brought your machine so we could test it. Well no one told me that so I didn't know. She got on me for not doing my labs even though my labs were not due until April. Then she said I needed
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Hugs, Kit, that all sounds really stressful. Did she send you to get any bloodwork done? Just wondering because the platelet place said your iron was low. Or did she say to do anything about that? I think anemia can affect blood pressure.
Was the BP medication a beta blocker, like, say, propanolol? I was asking because I was given those maybe 5 years ago to try to help with my anxiety, and they gave me a headache (non-migraine--and I do get migraines) each time I took them, so I stopped. So wondering if that's what you got? As for the ankles, when I went to the cardiologist, he actually listened with his stethoscope to my ankles, which seemed really odd (I guess they seemed OK?). I'd guess she was looking for swelling, as that can be a sign of heart issues.
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I second what the others said, @@. Sending sparkles of encouragement your way!
Just thought I'd share that you're miles ahead of me just by submitting like you do - I haven't actually submitted any poems since I got the first round of rejections and that's been awhile ago. I'm still writing, but everything I've written in the past 6 months is still hiding on my laptop. I haven't even shared any poems with L in quite awhile. I've started using certain dreams to create short stories from, and here's another place where you rock! You finish stories! I have 3 that are again, hiding on my laptop, half-finished. So, don't let 'em get you down. I'm betting you'll get an acceptance soon! |
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Hi LT,
No, the doctor gave me an ACE inhibitor called Lisinopril. She was supposed to write it for 60 pills so if I needed one in the evening I could take a pill then too, but I only got 30 pills and it says once a day. Even though when she discussed with me she said take one at night if I need to and in the morning if I need to. Or maybe she is assuming that the BP will be high only half the time. (Both my parents have high BP and I'm overweight so it was pretty much inevitable I think, though I am working on losing weight but can't change my family history). She didn't give me new labs because I have a set of labs that are sent to the lab place already for April. But she didn't say anything about the low iron. I do tend to be borderline anemic. Next time if I go to give platelets it will probably be fine. I know it was more of an issue when I was a child. But now it's like half the time. Thanks for your advice about the
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Next time I will bring my blood pressure cuff so she can test it and next time I'm going to have pages of data as it is about two months before I see her so hopefully she takes the BP thing more seriously. It felt like she gave me the 10 mg of the medicine just to shut me up. I didn't like how she seemed much more focused on the next patient than me. Although I know the next patient could be in worse health than me or just had a serious crisis or something but it was still my turn. My appointment. My money. She should focus on me. Sorry if that sounds selfish but first in person appointment in a year, I would kind of like my 10 minutes. __________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
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Its amazing how dealing with physical health complications and complexities can have an impact on our mental health. I know today I feel more "down" and "depressed" and "hurt" and "angry" than yesterday. But I just gotta sit with the feelings and see how they come out.
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Hugs, Kit.
I don't really understand the difference between beta blockers and ace inhibitors as far as which one they prescribe for blood pressure (I work for a pharmacy, but I haven't taken the pharmacy tech training yet where I imagine I'd learn stuff like this). i've been on atenolol (a beta blocker) for 22+ years now, they've adjusted the dosage here and there. Maybe one difference is how it's prescribed? I take it once a day every day. Except when I forget, and I can always tell when i've forgotten, because i get a headache. |
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I don't know the difference either and I don't know what my parents take. Maybe I should find out. That might make a difference in what works for me. I'm hopeful that as I lose weight my BP will stabilize and I won't need the medicine for a while. But I fully anticipate needing it at some point. I have all the bad genes from both of my parents. __________________ Dum Spiro Spero IC XC NIKA |
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My PCP feels my ankles to check for good circulation (I have a small varicosity on one calf from an old sports injury).
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My T says if I can’t talk about this with him he can’t work with me anymore. I think I’m done.
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Yeah, that would be a no-go for me. While there were a few topics my therapist would have liked me to discuss, he always respected my decision to limit topics or wait until I was ready and willing. So sorry.
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Unless there's a history of safety issues around your sexual life (or anything), what right does he have to demand you talk about it. And even if there is a history of safety issues around any behavior, what/how you talk about something does not have to be any more specific than what you feel comfortable sharing and reassurance to the safety level of your behavior. This sounds manipulative and is very red flag for me. Makes me think exploitive. Even if he had a valid therapeutic reason for wanting to discuss elements of your relationship with your BF; packaging it terms of a termination ultimatum removes any thoughts that it is to help you -- logic says that if he's willing for you to walk out the door and never be seen again, he's not trying to help you with his demand. |
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Is "won't give details about sex life" even an ethical reason to terminate with a client?
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